Need help to patch things up

[Melton]

We im not gonna get too much into the situation cuz im alil short on time... but me and this girl have been talkin for a little over a year now and we even hooked up once... (but that got stopped abruptly by her father who found out about us in the complete wrong way) so after that we still talked and did stuff together. There were times where she pissed me off wit other guys and i did the same with other girls to her... so it was kinda like we were together but really wasn't but trust me everything felt so right. And recently me and her had the most wonderful disscussions about how we felt about each other. She got so deep with we that we even talked about marraige and how much we loved each other. and then after that things kinda slowed down (for no reason) and now i feel that im losing her and i L-O-V-E her so much. I feel sick when im not with her. yoo know? anyways i need to know what i could do to patch this up cuz i do not want to lose her... i jus dunno what i could do... plz help!

[AndreBone]

Melton, I'm going to be honest with you. I think you and the girl you are speaking of may have some security issues. The part about the other guys and girls is not healthy. You mention love but this sounds more like infatuation.

Can I ask your age? I'm guessing that you are in high school. I do NOT mean that in a bad way. It just sounds like you haven't been in a serious long-term relationship yet.

Take your time with this girl and figure out what you really want. And stay away from marriage for now. Give yourself more time.

[Melton]

gotcha thx