relationship emergency

[jimmyray32]

I am a 32 year old male and I have almost no relationship experience at all. I lived with a wonderful woman for six years and we have a son together. I have tried dating but It usualy does not last very long. I am scared because I do not want to spend the rest of my life alone. I do not even no where to start looking for a woman. I go to work and I spend all of my free time at home. I am tired of the bar scene because the only women I seem to find in a bar are looking for a big penis or a big wallet and since I have neither I have not had any success. I am an average looking guy and I really respect women and treat them well but they always seem to go for the men who treat them like crap. Please can anyone help me.

[oberon]

Hi Jimmyray,
I can understand about the bar scene. *But there are other places to meet people. * What are your interests? *Sports? *Movies? *Books? *Look for organizations where you meet people that share the same interest. *Join a bookclub, movie club or sports organization. Another good place to meet people is volunteer work. *I kind of like that one because even if you don't meet your perfect partner, you've at least done something good.

Another suggestion... if you don't have any, make some female friends. *This is easier than dating. *Learn from them about what women like and then let THEM help you find someone.

Good luck!