i need help this could end in disaster

[14yroldVirgin]

Ok from the beggining... Ive liked this girl for a long time (like a yeear plus) and i recently asked her to a dance.. at first she accepted, and was fully going to the dance with me.. then 2 other guys asked her.. and she accepted.. i was sorta ok with that. then her friends hooked this other guy up with her and she gave him 3 dances while the other guys (me in that catagory) only get one dance.. OK i was a little discouraged, but i took it without so much as a complaint...
then her friends go one step further and hook them up so they are bf and gf... i was really pissed and punched the wall so hard my knuckes bled when i found out (i also dented the drywall) BUT i never let anyone find out about my anger, in hopes that she would see im a better guy, and that i like her a lot..

soon i was talking to a girl that has been my good friend for several years on msn.. and she said that the only reason that she was going out with this guy was that she thought that he was the only person in school that liked her for her personality and not her looks... of cource this isnt true and i exprecitly told this friend the truth.

she, obviously passed this information on to the girl i like and the girl i like dumped the guy she was going out with.. She then imediatly proceeded on to ask me 2 go to the entire dance with her again. i accepted.. and so everything was going well. By this time everyone knew that i liked her a lot and that i planned to ask her out on the day of the dance while we were slow dancing to her favorite song... everyone thought this was *sweet* and she knew this aswell..

now...... this girl that i usually talk to on msn (not hte one ive known for years) was talking to me on msn, and she was really distressed. she said that she was talking to the girl i like and that the girl i like said that she was going to say no when i asked her out..

But at the same time i was talking to the friend ive known for years and she said she had been talking to the girl i like too, and she said that the girl i liked really likes me still.. (at the exact same time)

so now i dont know if i should ask her out now, and i was wondering what to do......

[Trivium]

well. you miss 100 percent of the shots you do not take.(yeah sorry thats my basketball logic, works here also)

my opinion, go for it man, you know you want to.

and if you do not, you will regret it, maybe not immeaditaly, but someday theres a good chance that you will. its natural.

i punch walls to. haha, but i do it as a stress reliever.. haha, who needs professional help when you have walls to punch? (uhh yeah, please dont take my advice about punching walls, you can hit the studs, and those hurt)

[babalaza]

kick a pillow's a** next time.

well if it doesnt work, how about the girl from msn? If u have talked for so long u guys know each other and she should be happy about u told her about the other girl...
im guessing u told u loved the girl u danced with, she was the perfect1 for u, bla bla bla... girls like that, so maybe go for the girl u talk to on msn,

in the end its all the same, ur not going to marry any of them..

lol dont take my advice, give the one u like a try, if it doesnt work, dont hit the wall too hard.. it will happen more then once in ur life

[14yroldVirgin]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]lol dont take my advice, give the one u like a try, if it doesnt work, dont hit the wall too hard.. it will happen more then once in ur life

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ] i punch walls to. haha, but i do it as a stress reliever.. haha, who needs professional help when you have walls to punch? * (uhh yeah, please dont take my advice about punching walls, you can hit the studs, and those hurt)

rofl! thanks guys .. heres to walls! *(also i dont usually hit a stud, but when i do, it does take my mind off the pain (inside) and lets me focus on more important things.. (like my broken hand)

Apreciate the help guys, wish me luck...