!Why is he acting so strange?

[CoUnTMeIn16]

Well my name is Marie* and I am 16, and we will just say my boyfriends name is John*and he is 18. We have been dating for about 1 1/2 months, but we have dated 2 times before now. He and I both had only had sex with 1 person before until a few nites ago. He only had one serious g/f before me and the had only been together intimately once before. I had one serious relationship before him, and me and my ex were 'together' quite a few times. Well the other nite me and John* decided to have sex...Now he seems to be acting totally different. Tuesday nite after we did it he took me home early (around 9:30) because he had to work the next day...then Wed. he called me after he got home from work but we only talked for maybe 4 or 5 minutes cause' he kept complaining that he was really tired, and I said I would just call him back when I got done cleaning the house...I called him back around 5:30 P.M cause' that would give him about 3 hours of sleep. Then he talked to me for about 2 minutes then said he needed to go and take a shower he would call me back as soon as he got out. I waited and waited then he finally called me back around 9:30 that nite, and he said " Yeah, I am calling you back since I said I would" then he talked tome for 3 minutes and said he would just talk to me tommorow. I feel like somuch has changed, and I want to talk to him about it fri. nite because we are supposed to be doing something, but if he keeps blowing me off like he is now I don't know what I will do. Can anyone please give me and idea of what is going on w/ him and what I could have done to make him start acting like this!

[Tessie]

Men! Never know what the creatures are thinking. You need to talk to him and ask. Try to do it when he is in a good mood, nothing going on to distract him and just ask him how he feels.

[CoUnTMeIn16]

Update: He called me last nite when he goy home, and we had a reallylong comnversation about how he's been acting strange and he appologized saying he didn't realize he was doing it. He also told me that he really cares about me and that if he treatsmelike that then he wants me to tell him because he's prolly just in a bad mood! thanks!

[uncreativename]

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Quote[/b] (CoUnTMeIn16 @ Nov. 25 2005,08:10)]Update: He called me last nite when he goy home, and we had a reallylong comnversation about how he's been acting strange and he appologized saying he didn't realize he was doing it. He also told me that he really cares about me and that if he treatsmelike that then he wants me to tell him because he's prolly just in a bad mood! thanks!

ah the joys of boy problems...ive experienced bad mood swings from my bf but he always appologises when he knows he's got me in a bad mood or upset me which is good. treat is all with a pinch of salt...guys are just as moody as us girls, but they can't even blame it on their period! haha!

uncreativename