making the 1st move

[Melton]

Well i've been tring to do stuff with this girl for quite a long time now. For awile she has been making all the 1st moves and it's getting to a point to where it's annoying her. I dont want to lose her because i didnt have that much confedence when we want to kiss. Well look i just need some advice on what to say or what signs to look for next time im in one of these situations. Then i could show her that im not In-confedent plz help!!! Thank you in advance!

[STKMikeCampo]

I know its hard, I'm non-first, first mover myself. I always want to do it but couldn't ever do it. If its gotten to that point like u (happened to me too), u need to step up to the plate and just go for it. She'll definatly appreciate not doing the work, after that first couple times you should be able to do it whenever without hesistation. Another thing when it comes to physical contact and what not, just let go and forget what the other person thinks and they will likley catch on and do the same, making the whole expersience more comfortable and enjoyable. Let urself go crazy

[Melton]

Yeah ok i see where you are comin from... i will keep that in mind. Well thanks.. is there any like signs or things i should look or listen for her to say to let me know that it's what she is waiting for?

[STKMikeCampo]

touching, close to your face, deep eye gazing things of the sort. If you really want to be an ass, you could tease and not kiss her on purpose making her want it more.

[libertine]

Go for it. I'm shy with these things too, but my last boyfriend was even worse than me, so I just went for it. Its actually very natural, when you go in to kiss her she'll anticipate it anyway, so its not like you're just jumping on her!

You have to make some kind of effort, because believe me, its hell when you feel like you're the only one putting the work in

Good luck