Relationship NO, NO?

[STKMikeCampo]

I love my girlfriend such but she has trouble seeing that, not so much anymore but. She was trying to get me to tell her the things we have in common and why we (I) started seeing eachother in the first place. I said it but thing is it took me about 4-5 mins to spit it out, I could put in that it was 4am over the phone as a factor for the delay but I won't use it to defend myself, just pointing it out. It took my so long and it definatley affected her somehow but she obviously wouldn't say, i'll find out evantually though\hopefully. If this happened to you, how would u feel?
I also need to add that I'm slow when it comes to social interractions, as in if somthing important happens or somthing important is said it takes me more time than usual people to come up with a response. I suppose I need to digest wat was said and analyse my thoughts really hard(long) before i actually respond

[STKMikeCampo]

anyone?

[Melton]

Well my girl asked me that not too long ago! but she asked why did you ever start to get feelings for me and such. I know it does feel akward and someimes you just gotta think lang and hard on what you're going to say (cuz you dont wanna mess anything up) but i just told my girl how i feel when im around her. How i think of her from the moment i wake up to the second i go to sleep just to dream about her. And how i can see her everytime i close my eyes long enough. If you tell her somethin like that... im sure she will get the hint on how much you really care...

[WallyLlama]

I think in any relationship there's a need for some balance and a whole lot of understanding here.

Hesitancy in answering relationship questions can mean a lot of different things and some of them aren't good.

For example, it's good to be sensitive to the other, but it's dishonest if you hesitate while deciding how to answer based on how your partner will react to it.

If I understand the original example and question, sounds like a communication breakdown on both sides. It might be interesting to answer her question now... "I'm sorry I had to think about it... but now that I have... here's..."

After you finish she might tell you how she felt when you couldnt' answer... and next thing you know you'll be really communicating. Remember that communicating is not about talking, it's about understanding.

[drgoogle]

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[Thunderchild]

just tell her the honest truth if u are both that into one another she should see ur point and understand. on the other hand if u have a problem and as u say take time to react in relationship situations then think of all these questions beforehand and how to answer them but always seek to tell the truth else it can't be much of a relationship.