Getting Over Her

[CuriousMale]

Ok heres the story, i originally knew this girl as an acquiantance around this time last year, nothing more.

The summer came and we began talking a lot more and within the last 6 weeks or so we became quite close. Eventually i asked her out after a few weeks of real closeness and she said yes.

The first week went ok, though then she dumped it on me as we returned to school from a holiday that she didn't want to continue it, as it was unfair on me that she wasn't able to see me enough, wanting to be just friends for now.

That was 4 days ago, and although i said i was ok (to her) with it i'm still not back to my old self. When i'm around other people i feel fine but as soon as i'm either alone, or i see her it all comes back, much to my irritation.

Is there anything i can do to subside these feelings quicker or get rid of them altogether?. It seems obvious that she's moved on fairly quickly (though a little odd imo), though i'm having trouble to

Thanks

[MizMinx555]

Darlin, we all have low moments and we all have lost loves, and crushes that have been stepped on. Unfortunatly there is no magic pill, you just kinda have to put everything in perspective and weather through it. You sound fairly young, it seems like it was a pretty quick relationship (if you could even call it that)... the crudy period will pass eventually, I promise. Someday you'll see her and realize that it wasnt all that big a deal... HEY, you could even try a girl's trick for getting over a dumping: LOTS of movies, and LOTS and LOTS of ice cream (Ice cream is definately not gender specific). Give yourself a couple of pity party days and put it behind you.

Good Luck!!!

[MasterBater101]

Well, last time that happened to me I was referred to a psychological institute. I remember one of my friends, her ex was a real ass and so she pretended to be the insane girlfriend, insanity will always lighten the mood because you are too insane to realize you are sad.

[CuriousMale]

Hah, a week and a half on and i'm feeling fine, was a heat of the moment thing i guess, filled the void with other stuff, thanks for the help still :]

[aussie_gal]

wow you're so lucky. That's great news. It takes me months to get over people. i guess its because i dont often find people i like, so when i do i really really like them. Also, for that same reason, i feel down because of the fact that i know it'll be a long long time again until i find someone new...