Making Progress...

[GoldenArmedGod]

Well... I haven't been on this website in awhile but I'm here now to ask some new questions and update.

For the past two years I've been working extremely hard on tweaking my personality and overcoming my fear of people. I've really come a long way in all that time. I'm to the point now where I have a ton of friends and I can fit in with just about anyone. I've even gotten over my extreme discomfort around girls and I'm happy to report that a good majority of my close friends are girls now. I've really been able to get some confidence in myself and it's amazing to watch myself explode in social settings (in a good way).

The problem I'm having now is identifying possible mates. I seem to have chemistry with a lot of girls and a lot of girls want to be around me and hang out with me but I always keep distance from girls and keep it on a purely "friends" level because I'm too scared to do anything more than that with anyone. In the past year I've had two sexual encounters and one girlfriend, all of which weren't really decent experiences. I'm happy to have experienced those things but if that's what this is about I don't really want any part of it.

My question is how do I identify if a girl is interested in me? And how do I act on that?

I find it hard to believe that all these girls who want to hang out with me are interested in me and I really don't want to ruin fun friendships because of my own stupidity. I'm in no rush for any of this, I just am annoyed with the fact that I do not know and I'm not sure what's going on.

Thank you for reading this and helping me. I look forward to reading your thoughts.

[babalaza]

Of one of those girls there is definately one you are more confortable with, maybe the one you like or not. Sometimes, what puts a couple together is not only the couple itself but one friend.
Girls talk everything to eachother expecialy if they have a crush on a guy. Just talk with one of them, she will help you,
this happened with me man, so you wouldnt be the only one.
She will even tell u what the other1 likes and how.
Sometimes, the girl who u talked to is the one who likes you the most, that suxs
I dont think they dont like u if they hang out with u. Sooner or later, one of them will have a crush on u. It happens everywhere and all the times.
Just act normal man, be urself, u should be fine.