paranoid

[LEd_Zeppelin]

Well i have been going out with this girl for 8 months now. Well we both love each other i think. We both had sex for the first time a couple of months ago. Well I am just very paranoid about her getting pregnant. I worry about her being pregnant all the time and its really stressing me out. She always tells me I am not pregnant i would know and reasures me that shes not and that usually stops me from worring about it for a while. Then i might here something in health class or hear something like a symptom or something and then im worried about it again. My gf HATES it, and I hate it, but i cant help it. She had her period last month but for some reason i still think that she could be even though theres only that small chance. ah idk im just kinda weird i think and very paranoid...hmm idk. Maybe its just that i have too much time to think and dont keep my mind busy lol. Idk she thinks its ruining our relationship.

Also we got caught having sex a few weeks ago by her parents. Well they arent mad or anyhting anymore and they think im a good guy cuz i told them the truth and stuff, but we dont really get any of the alone time that we used to get. Like they would let me go over there when she was baby sitting her sisters, and after they would go to sleep well we would ... well they dont let me go over anymore. I understand why they dont and it doesnt really bother me that much. Since then we havent had sex in like 2 months, and my gf also thinks this is ruining our relationship. It always used to seem like wenever we didnt do it for like a week or sumthing we would be at each others necks and fighting more. Im not really sure though.

Well Idk any thoughts opinions sugestions or watever please post.

[MasterBater101]

First of all, take a deep breath and relax, if you don't your hair will start to fall out like mine did, trust me it is not fun to start losing hair during puberty but fortunatly I got my hair back after I got rid of the stress. You need to (I sound stupid saying this) meditate, put your legs up into a full lotus if you can manage it and take deep, controlled breaths, think about anything pleasant and see a psychiatrist, it always works for me. Hope that helped .