I was married for 3 years and with him for a total of ten years. He and I had a very very very boring and almost non existant sex life. We divorced and I met the man I hope to spend the rest of my life with. We hump like rabbits and the sex is great. However, he has mentioned a few times that I need to initiate and get a little more adventurous in bed. I need some advice on how I am to do these things without ever experienceing them in the past. Is there a book on this stuff?

Can anyone out there tell me if they have been through this and let me know how I can improve these things? Help!!!! Thanks