My Girlfriend Or Ex

[Dan89]

I'm not quiet sure what I can consider her now. Ok let me explain the situation. We are both 15. I met her though my dad because shes my dad's friend's daughter. I didn't know her but they invited me to /Six Flags with them. It was me, her, her mom, her dad, her brother, and her friend. At the end of the night I asked her out. I was her first. I called her the next day. Her mom came on which was a little weird. I said at the end that I loved her. Did it again the next day too. Then the third day she said it made her feel to akward. Okay. So we went to diner the next Saturday. Again all the same people except her friend wasn't there and her grandma and my parents were there. Then we went to this car racing thing. Then we went to Applebees for dinner. Weirdest part of the relationship. Her mom said if I eat a jalipanio, I can kiss my girlfriend on the cheek. I did it thinking she meant later on. She didn't. She meant right there in front of everybody(even workers) and her mom took a picture. Oh well. A little weird with the parents thing but fine. We went to Six Flags again the next day same people as the last time we were there. That week I mention going out on single dates, just me and her. She makes it seem like her mom doesn't want her to. By the way her parents are very strict and her mom came on the phone every night we talked. So Friday me, her and a few of her friends were going to go out to dinner then a football game with no parents. Improvement. Well plans change and now they are going to go but at a different table. Get there, they are at the f***ing table. Does anyone see a problem yet? Okay next day me and my parents go to see her dance and stuff. We hung out a little afterwards. This week we been talking but then she told me Monday night that she was afraid to single date because we are both quiet and probably won't talk. I got a little upset. She called me up on the bus Tuesday and she jokes about going out with this kid which was just her cousin. Well after she told me it was her cousin she did it again. I didn't catch on that she was just doing the same thing and I was upset so I just said if you like him so much go out with him. Then she kept asking me if I was mad at her and wouldn't listen when I said no. We finally hung up after her saying we weren't talking anyway. Well later she calls again and her mom gets on. She accusses me of not respecting her and her daughters choice and that I was trying to force me into single dating. She said things like "She just turned 15 and you just met her" and "Why do you want to single date her, what do you want to do to her." So I told her everyone our age and even younger does it and all my friends do it. She said she gave her the choice and she said no. She also said (and he was on my side) that my girlfriends dad said that I am lucky I am even talking to her ever (I heard him say it to). Her mom also said complained that I didn't go to Six Flags one of the times because I had to much homework and that I didn't go out to diner with them once because we had to go to church because we were leaving for my nana's in Pennsylvania early. What do you want to revolve my whole life around you(her mom)? So I got back on with my girlfriend for a little then told her I couldn't talk and told her I'd call her back around 9:30. Well I didn't and turned my cell off. What do you think I should do? I can't take her mom she makes fun of everyone even though she shouldn't. What she should do is look in a f***ing mirror and get her nose out of her daughter busness. I really don't want to mess up my dad's friendshit with her dad. I'm also afriad because she was the only girl that ever liked me that I liked to. Let me explain. All the girls I like hate me but all the girls that like me I hate. It sucks everytime I hear a girl likes me they are always but ugly... except her. Oh well thanks in advance guys and sorry so long.

[EndlessProblems]

Tell her how you feel, wether it means her mom being on the phone or not. Tell her that you want to be on dates with her alone, because truly going out with other people isn't much of a "date". Tell her, you're uncomfortable with her mom there, and those other people too, and that if she really wanted to go out with them she can, but it doesn't have to be a date.

Relationships are based on trust dude, where is hers? Just tell her how you feel, and give her a nice long speech, and have it go in one of two directions.

If she disagrees with you dump her, c'mon dude, you know there will be more women out there eventually.

But, let's all hope it turns out good, and you two continue going out.

Good luck

[missyh]

hey,
geni you poor lad you shouldnt go tru that! the girl is either brainwashed or is not comfortable with the thought of been alone with a fella,
maybe her parents are her best friends or her controlers, but you should not put yourself through that and if your dAd and hers are any way good friends you two gettin together or breakin up or rowin should not affect their relationship , so for get them think about the most important person in this case...YOU

try let us know how it goes ..;-)

[Dan89]

Well I got back with her thought it was going ok but now she says shes scared to kiss even just a quick no tongue on the lips. Ok what do I do.