Relationship Advice

[Xero420]

Well let me just explain myself and my situation in a nutshell. Im Currently dating my best friends sister, Who is my age and ive known her for a little over two years now. I dated her for a few months after i first met her and then we broke up never talked and we recently started dating again. About a month and a half ago, The other night it all came out in not such a up front way but i found out that she was bi and she had done (or still continues to do) Sexual stuff with her bestfriend and i dont have a problem with any of that but should i be upset that she sorta cheated on me or did she at all? I Dont think she would cheat on me with another guy. Should i talk to her? What should I say. I really care for her and i just want to make it work between us any advice would be extreamly helpful

[Morgandy]

A lot of girls will presume that because it's another female, guys won't feel threatened by the action. It's totally up to you and how it makes you feel. If it makes you uncomfortable, tell her. Maybe she'll be flattered by it even (that you're not just territorial towards other males).

Now if she's an established bi (and she's not just experimenting), I'd probably ask her if there's any emotional attachment there, or if the two of them both just consider it a safe (harmless) sexual encounter.

[Xero420]

Im Pretty Sure that she is an "Established BI" just because most experimenting happens in the puberty years would you agree? No it doesnt offend me its just i have never had to deal with anything like this before and i dont want to ruin everything we have got over it. I Accually think its kinda hot and would be intested in a 3 sum with her and her friend but how would i go about bringing that up

[Kim930]

First of all, has she been doing things with this girl while you two were dating? See, I would consider that cheating.....whether it was a girl or a guy it was still doing things on the sly. But that's just me. If you don't have a problem with it, cool. Next, I'd talk to her & see if she considers this experimenting or full fledged bi. That could have a big impact on your relationship. And if she brought this up to you, then she might very well be up to bringing you into it too. Just talk to her. Let her know how you feel about it & ask her if that would be something she would be interested in. The worst she can say is no right? Good luck!