Was he just looking for a booty call?

[JustMeBlog]

Ok, I really need some help here...

The guy in question is a friend of my sister's fiance (did I lose ya yet? ) and I met him twice before very briefly in connection with my brother's wedding. I saw him again last Sunday night at a bar a group of us sometimes hang out at. He was a little flirty and so was I. At the end of the night I ended up following him back to his place. We talked for a while before the whole "should prolly get to bed since I gotta get up for work in 3 hours" moment. So he looks at me and asks me what I am doing - going home or staying over? I told him it was his place and didn't want to impose on him. He then leaned over and gave me a really great kiss as his answer. So we climb into bed and do some fooling around (not all the way as he says you just don't do that on your first date, but a bj and some action on his part... what can I say, I get horny when I drink and he's a hunk). When all is said and done we cuddle up (he even reaches for my hand) and fall asleep holding hands and quite comfortable. I wake a couple times during the next few hours and we are still cuddled up.

So its all good so far right?

The next morning we wake to the alarm (we both have to work) and I get redressed to leave. He walks me to the front door and asks if I have his number. I tell him no and he gives it to me. A hug before I leave and as I glance back as I walk down the hall I see him still at the door.

So now the question: is he thinking of me as just a booty call since we did the whole fooling around thing? Or is he truly interested in getting to know me and possibly starting a relationship? He didn't come across as a player or booty call type of guy but I could be wrong... and I worry about how I came across...

so any guys out there able to give me some insight? The few friends I have talked to say I should call him tonight since 24 hours (yesterday) is too soon and desperate sounding and more than 48 hours shows I'm not really interested (but I am)... But I just don't know what to expect out of the call... get together for an actual date or call for another booty night?

[WallyLlama]

Does he have your number?

How long you wait to call him is really not going to determine how you come across... what you say will. Figure out what you want... and expect to get that, within reason.

I'm too old fashioned to really give you a guy's perspective... but I do think you can call him and talk to him! And, since he sounds like a reasonable and thoughtful guy, he'll respond that way.

Talk to him... that's the only way you'll elminate any worries you have about what he thinks of you... and it's the only way you'll determine what his interests (and yours) really are!

[oberon]

I'd say you should definitely call him. I think it's very proper to let someone know that you had a good time. He gave you his number, right? So call. You don't have to make this a big deal. Just call and say you enjoyed your time with him. See how he responds. HE may ask YOU out. If he doesn't then, you can at least give him your number and see if he calls you.

Good luck and take care.

[wonderwoman]

Oberon is right--give him a quick hello & had a good time call. Then give him the necessary info for HIM to make the next move---patience girl patience!!!