How do I get her to notice me?

[Newguy59]

Hey all, I'm 15 and new to the dating scene. I come from a small school out in the country sadly... and have only had a few girlfriends. I am now a highschool student and I met this awesome girl on my bus and the best thing is she lives nearby! Anyways I've been having trouble getting her attention, anyone have any suggestions?

[c+m14335]

well u could just try talking to her, i mean what could it hurt u need to like get to know alot about her before u can actually get into a serious realtionship , i learned that the hard way, but just talk to her and see where it goes from there

[mjv154]

Listen up Mr. 15 I'm going to I'm about to save you a TON of wasted time and energy over the next few years of high school and college.

Ready? You walk up to her, sit down next to her and say, "hello." Never in the history of the world has there ever been a better "line"

You don't need to get her attention, you don't need to try and impress her. These ploys usually make you end up looking like more of an ass than you already are.

Be honest, be funny, and be your attention getting self.


I'll also take the time here to answer the question you haven't asked, but want to know. How to break the ice? Sure any dope can walk up to a girl, but what the heck do you say after the hello?

Humor usually works best here, if you can make her laugh it will calm her down and relax her. Funny thing is she will probably be just as nervious as you are when you do go up and talk to her.

So, pick something that is going on, someone on the bus, something out side the bus and lead off with a funny comment about that. "Wow, that beat up 1982 station wagon is such a sweet ride, that's what I want my first car to be....how about you?"

She'll laugh, you'll laugh, and your on your merry way.....

[Acid_Burn]

well i think am gonna have to agree with mjv154 on this one XD... just talk to her and be yourself the worst she can say is go away just go for it