Gold-digging guy

[Pink Lady]

This guy I am seeing (it's been about 2 months, we're not officially bf/gf) RARELY pays for anything when we go out.

I bought him a $60 birthday gift, which he asked for ($60 is a lot, hey, I'm still a college student).

On our first date, he used MY tab at the bar...when I thought HE was gonna pay for his own drinks. He only paid $5 for my cover charge.

When we eat places, he sometimes doesn't buy himself food and instead eats off my plate. And a few times I've paid for him.

He NEVER bought me a drink when we go out to the bars.

He OWES me money, b/c he had to "BORROW" some....which he said he'd pay, but hasn't yet and it's been a while.

And most of all, he asks for oral sex, but doesn't give it back.

Am I being a bitch thinking of these lil things that drive me nuts? He's nice though, but how do I break it to him NICELY that I don't wanna date him anymore b/c he's cheap and is a taker and rarely a giver?

[B-RadGFoRealz]

You do just that... Think about your options here. You either keep going out with him and dont say anything. You talk to him about it and work things out (or try to anyway) Or you just break up with him. You have 3 options the choice is yours

[Tiana]

You are definately not over-reacting or being a bitch thinking about these things! This guy has some terrible money habits!! If a guy did this to me I would probably have bid his sorry ass goodbye sooner if not later. Definately talk to him about it, but beware of the "I'll change, just give me some time" excuse. It's not fair of him to take advantage of you like this, and you deserve better!!! Good luck

[lilly2279]

yuck. I'd kick his cheap buttocks to the curb.

you are not being unreasonable. Stand up for yourself, stop paying for him. NO one in the relationship should have to pay for it all. Tell him you need to start going dutch (both paying their own share) or not go at all. period.

Oral sex with no return? Well that's a whole other thing. I wouldn't stand for it and would feel used. if you feel used, say something.

[~!`#1`!~™]

If i did that my g/f wat kill me.... I couldnt imagine putting up with that. A relationship is all about working together...

[LittleFury]

Kick him to the curb. I mean, relationship should be about give and take. This one just takes takes takes. What happened than he finds someone who he thinks is better? Spare yourself heartache and money and have fun kicking his loser arse to the curb

[scruff]

i couldnt do that to my girl thats all so harsh!

[iamawesum69420]

Well maybe don't just dump him but you should definately talk to him about this because if you don't tell him anything is wrong then it's just going to keep happening. He might just not know that he's doing anything wrong. But on the other hand he might know exactly what he's doing. Either way you should talk to him and work something out before you just kick him to the curb. If after you talk to him and nothing changes that's when you should get rid of him.

[mjv154]

Drop this looser now. He is obviously a dead beat. You are wise enought to see that it is happening. Be wise enought to end it!