She's not ready

[Metalixia]

Hi,

Now me and my girl used to go out from last November to December. We broke up. Now where back together.

I'm 17, and I really need someone I can have sex with, but she's 15, and I can tell by the aura she gives that she's just not ready. She doesn't even feel confident enough to snog me yet.

I've seen other girls before getting back with her, but nothing had the same vibe and bittersweetness that I feel with her. And I really do care about her alot..., a hell of a lot, and I'm prepared to wait.

So, I need to know from maturer men, will it be likely if I play it cool and chill out, that one morning she'll wake up, and say she's ready? Am i just dreaming?

[Brandye]

In some countries you would go to jail. That is how unready she is. There are many sexually active 17 yo women around.

[Lydia_Languish]

Its unlikely that she'll be ready for sex soon if she's not even sure about kissing. And you must not make her feel pressured in any way, because girls her age can (not always) be very easily convinced to do something that they are really not happy with, and will regret.

As I see it, you have two choices. Either stay with her and accept that you are (probably) not going to be having sex in the near future, possibly ever (if you break up again), or you break up with her and find someone else older and less vunerable. Just my thoughts, hope things go well for you

[Chocolategirl]

I lost my virginity when i was 15 to guy i was dating, he told me if i loved him i would, i did he broke up with me and i have regreted it ever since. Dont talk her into sex. Then if you all break up she may be so devistated and think poorly of herself and think she is no good anymore. She may want to do it to please you or think that you wont leave her if she gives in. Just my opinion though, I wish i could go back to 15 and start over again, knowing what i know now.

[Metalixia]

Thanks for the help.

I'm gonna just chill out and carry on seeing her, and not bring up the subject of sex. She'll let me know when she's ready.

I care about her alot, and I don't want to pressure her.

[Brandye]

Metal,

How can you possibly be at this forum addressing sex with a 15 yo and threaten death to a 16 yo for asking a question at the following forum? You are the one a bit messed up. Get help

[WallyLlama]

Gee Brandye, why not tell us how you really feel? LOL

Don't you just love it? Maybe there's something in the stars today that's creating a lack of patience... but sometimes this stuff just does get to you... I found one today myself. "How do I bring up dating to the guy I'm having sex with?"

SIGH

[Metalixia]

Listen, I do wanna appologise for my words.

I'm a confused person, sometimes it upsets me that there's always helpfull advice given to girls who think it's okay to sleep around, but when I ask about sex in a loving relationship, I get a negative answer.

I wouldn't wish death or disease to anyone, especially a young girl, probably just as confused as me, and definatly more open minded.

I can easily just make another profile, you woudn't know I was the same person, but why not just accept my appology, and just recognise me as someone who's having trouble accepting sex into their life as a positive thing.

[Thunderchild]

apart from the legal issues of which i am not aware and not concerned if u realy care for her that much then u will wait but if u desperately want it and can't wait then maybe u should look to somone else and leave her be.
just my opinion however but put HER FIRST if u realy DO care about her

[hotmarriedlady]

Suck on her titties my friend, until her sweet pussy is good and wet, then reach up her skirt and diddle her clitty till she cums like a whore!! Eat her, make her wiggle, and once you've given her lots of pleasure, show her your fat cock and encourage her to tug you to pleasureland!! Shoot your quim in a towel, but offer to let her go down on you! tHIS YOUNG LADY NEEDS A FEW GOOD ORGASMS TO SET HER STRAIGHT!!
Good luck! Denise