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I'm 18 yrs old and much the same is the guy this topic is about...haha yeah anyways i first met Tim with a friend, at this time i was in a relationship and i had just ended the relationship about a month ago. This relationship lasted about a year and a half, but during this relationship i met Tim through a friend and almost managed to cheat on my ex with him, i didn't tho, now i didn't talk to him for like a year after this happened...but we have just recently started talking again about a month ago...we decided to try and work into a relationship...everything was going great until my friend went up and asked him if he just wanted to have sex and chuck me...now i didn't ask her to do this but she did and this scared him off i guess you could say thinking that all i wanted was to get laid...well anyways about 2 weeks went by and now we are trying things again after we talked about what happened last time...and this is where i am lost. The kid wants a relationship or to work at one but he doesn't seem to be puttin any effort into it...now he does smoke pot on a regular bases, and blames the fact that he forgets things on that...although i can somewhat understand that it still does not answer everything. He wants to hang out yet doesn't make a date for it, he doesn't call me, whenever we are talking he will just log off msn and not come back, it just seems to me that he is putting no effort into this and yet he says that he is willing and trying...I don't push him into things i know he likes to take things slow and i want to do much the same but we are stuck. I don't know wether just to give up and move on or stick with it and see if it changes...and we have talked about this but he still doesn't seem to change so help me with this im askin you please. Anything will help..
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