Him And His Best Friend

[Jenna]

Ok so when I was in high school there was a boy (we will call him Jack) I had always liked and by the end of my senior year I had his #. we ended up having sex @ my place one night and he was really cool bout it we takled for like 2 weeks then i went away for bout a week. when i came back a good friend of his ( we will call him Bob) and his BEST FRIENDS room mate chilled one night and we ended up fooling around but NOT having sex. i told Jack* what happend 2 days later and would have told him sooner if i would have been able 2.I havent even talk 2 Bob since that nignt. bout a month ago *all this happend and now i dont want 2 move on but Jack* wont give me any thing 2 work with to be able have any thing with him HELP what should I do should i stay or let it go???

[WallyLlama]

I guess the short answer is that you can't let go of something you don't have.

It sounds like you and Jack didn't have enough going to survive your, um, "indescretion." How long you've known (or dated) some one is the not the measure of a relationship. The measure of a relationship is about things like "connecting," and love and trust and...

The only potential hope I'd see is to sit with Jack and find out where his head is... not just about the Bob thing, but how he feels about you and the relatonship.