Girlfriend doesnt feel confident about her body

[markedmannerf]

Ok heres my deal. First of all want I want to accomplish is setting the mood right and encouraging my girlfriend to feel good about her body. I am 23 years old my girl is 21. We have been together a year. We have not had sex. The most we have done is some minor touching and that has all been on top of our clothes for the most part. There has been times shes raised her shirt and bra and let me kiss her breast and she has jerked me off with her hand a few times but other than that thats as far as its got. I have fingered her but only through her clothes. She wont let me actually touch her down there. Well we just had a 1 year anniversary and I bought her some gstring panties and she wore them. When I say she wore them she wore them under her clothes. ha! Anyway She let me unzip her pants in the back because the ones she was wearing unzipped all the way in the back. And we just layed and made out and she would let me grab her butt and she even turned around doggie style and let me finger her through her pants with her pants half way down and unzipped. She looked so good. Then its like when she noticed that I was looking at her butt she starts zipping her pants up! Im like "No baby you look good." Shes like "No I dont." Trust me ladies and gentlemen this girl is gorgeous. Shes about 5"5 and weighs 120 pounds. And she has the cutest butt ever. But she really doesnt realize how pretty she is and I tell her all the time. Also just a note before she let me even look at her butt at all when I was behind her she was like "Can you close the blinds a little more." I was like "You dont want me to see you?" She responds "no" Anyway I enjoy all this messing around me do soo much. I love this girl to death and plan on marrying her. She has told me she wants to save sex for marriage I respect that wish but at the same time I kind of wonder how serious she is about it? I feel like she loves the attention I give her but doesnt feel comfortable with her body. Im not really even looking to have straight sex with her even. *Im just looking for her to feel more comfortable with her pants coming down and me seeing her butt and her legs. Honestly I have never hardly seen her legs! She says all the time "My legs are so ugly." what can I do to help her feel more confident about this? everytime her pants start coming down she stops it. I just want her to even just feel comfortable in her panties just making out with me Im not even asking for sex at this point. Sometimes I feel like when she straights to pull her pants up to just start fingering her harder and drive her up the wall and just start pulling her pants all the way down and just keep kissing her butt and her legs and telling her how good they look and how much I love them. But Im kind of scared this will get me in trouble? What do you think? Also I was thinking about doing this to try to help her out and to set the mood. I was going to blind fold her and not tell her where were going and bring her to my house and carry her inside and lay her down on a bed of scented rose petals and just start kissing her and rubbing her body etc. and then finally take off the blindfold and start making out with her and then when things were really starting to get hot I would say "Hey lets try something." Ill take the blindfold and some handcuffs and handcuff myself to the bed and cover my eyes so I cant see anything and Ill lay down on my back fully clothed and tell her "Ok now you can do whatever you want. You can do nothing if you want or you can take your pants off and rub yourself up against me Im sure it would drive you crazy as well as drive me crazy." And then just see what she will do. I dont know if this will help or not. But I guess I can try. It just seems that she doesnt want me to see her legs or touch them. The reason I came up with this idea is one time when we were making out and I had my dick out of my boxers and I was laying on my back and I covered my face with a pillow and I was like "Do whatever you want I promise I will not look." Needless to say she proceeded to pull down her panties and and rubbed my dick between her legs just for a few seconds. I was in shock she did this. ha. Anyway I hope you all can help me it is much apperciated.

[lilly2279]

Then I would definitely play the blindfold game!!!

Here's an idea.. When you are not "in the mood" or being sexual at all talk to her. It always comes down to communication. Tell her pretty much what you told us. Do this in a neutral setting or in a letter.

Tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her. Tell her you don't mind not having sex till marriage if that is what she wants. Let her know she holds all the cards. Tell her you just want to be able to please her and touch her whole body. Tell her how much it would turn you on to get to play with her while she was in her panties and bra, so you could touch her anywhere. Let her know that you think her body is perfect and that you wish she could understand and believe you think she is the most beautiful girl in the world. Let her know you would never find fault with her body or think any inch of her was unattractive.

When she says things like "my legs are so ugly" ask her why in the world she would think so. Then say something like "insert sexy model name here" Would be thrilled to have legs like that! Maybe she has cellulite, which is so common and hard to get rid off, and she's afraid you'll find it and turn her away. You should tell her you want so badly to kiss every inch of her round little bottom and wish she'd let you. Move down her legs and make sure to tell her how gorgeous every inch of her body is.

Just make sure she knows there is nothing that would make you think she is not the sexiest woman out there. reassurance. Being a woman can be a real drag with all these models out there. perfect legs, bottoms, boobs, skin, etc. Girls don't realize the power of digital enhancement and air brushing. They think you're supposed to actually be perfect.