he masterbates too much?

[meankitty526]

what do y'all think... *i've been seeing this man for over a year.... *within the last few months our sex life has changed. *when we're not together, which is usually during the week, he masterbates to the point that his dick is red and sore. *so when the weekend's here, we sometimes can't have sex. *i'm totally offended and i feel so insignificant. *he has always told me that our sex is the best he's ever had. *he's totally open with me about the fact that the masterbates to internet porn and videos... *he admits that he can't help it. *he's a 42 year old man with a very high sex drive. *i'm not sure what too think... *am i worrying about nothing? *is he being selfish? *can i trust him if he has a sex drive like he does?

any advice is appreciated... *thanks!

[demonbuttercup]

I think most would say its never too much unless it starts to interfer w/ the relationship and/or sex life.
Yea that would hurt my feelings if we hadn't see each other all week yet we couldn't have sex b/c his penis was sore from the past week.
He either needs to chill out or maybe not be as rough or something...geesh.
He's also an older man and set in his ways I would imagine.

Did you tell him how it made you feel? He might think its not that big of a deal =\

[lilly2279]

Make sure it's red and sore from that and not some kind of STD.

that is crazy to masterbate that much. yeah, get a little gentler grip, use some lube for goodness sake!