Im 2 years older...does it matter

[DarrenC]

Hi, im new here. my names darren and im 15. I fancied this girl i knew called amy and she is so cool. i really like her and we are best mates. she wants to go out with me and i fancy her but then i found out she is 13! ive been thinkin bout her being 2 years younger and im not sure if its a good thing to do. (go out with her). i really want to but shes 13. if she was 15, id be in heaven! please give me some advice. is it alright to go out with her?

[girl12]

I think it depends on her level of maturity and your level of maturity. What you are both ready for, discuss it with her and see if it would really work. If you think it would really work out, then go for it!

-Mariah

[DarrenC]

hmmmm. thanks for the quick reply btw. she isn't tthe average 13 year old and by that i mean not all into dolls or whatever lol. yeah she is mature. she could easily be a 15 year old if it said it on her birth certificate if you know what i mean lol

[HerPleasure06]

if thats the case go for it...…you will probably find in life no matter how old u are… some people your age will act like 2 year olds and some people younger may be just as mature if not more mature than you…what really matters is it is someone that you like, have fun with, and is on your level. Your friends might talk but if its someone you truly like and feel is on the same level then what does it matter

[Dan89]

I hope its not bad because I'm in like the same position exept she has a boyfriend.

[iamawesum69420]

I don't see any problem with it at all. My boyfriend is 5 years older than me and I've been with men that are almost 20 years older than me. Age is just a number as long as everything's legal but even then I think some of the laws are kinda messed up. Like if you're 18 you can't be with a 17 year old. What's up with that?!