I need advice about a girl

[pokerfan3]

Ok so how do i explain this exactly, i have a friend, and me and her have been close for a couple years. We both like each other and we have said it to each other before. Before school ended at our college I finally worked up the courage to ask her out, the timing was bad though because she had just broken up and wasn't ready to date just yet. So i decide to give her some time, hoping that once school starts again she will be ready for a relationship. However something happen recently that make me feel a little bit weired. She talekd about how she visisted another one of her guy friends and he made moves on her. Since she was stil kind of upset over her last boyfriend she went along with it and slept with him. She said that she didn't really want to do it and saw it as a mistake. However the stories she tells like these lead me to two conclusions. One, she is a patholigical lier which is bad, or worse she's telling the truth and i may never have my chance. So basically the question is, should i continue to believe that i have a chance with her, or should i not hold my breath. Feel free to be brutally honest, for that's the only way to know for sure. Thanks.

[oberon]

You've been "close for a couple of years", and yet, you think she might be a "pathological liar"? * I'm not sure why her sleeping with another guy would mean that you won't have a chance with her- since she said it was a mistake (probably "rebound sex"... in which case, better him than you). *But the other two would worry me.

I think you need to spend some time REALLY getting to know her before you jump into a relationship. *If you are already having concerns that she's a liar, then you need to ask yourself "Why?". *Have you ever caught her in a lie? *Has she given you any other reason to think she might be undependable? *

You should resolve these feelings before pursuing a relationship with someone that you already feel you might not be able to trust.

[LastChance]

You pretty much already lost your chance. Girls keep guy friends to have exactly that a friend. She needs you to tell all her problems to and dump all her emotional baggage on you so you can help her out with advice and support. If she really liked you she never would have told you about the other guy because she wouldn't have wanted to ruin possible chance of a relationship with you. It is possible to get out of the friend zone it just takes alot of work and your better off keeping her as a friend and finding someone else that you'd have a better chance with.

[Skyby]

last chance I have to disagree. My boy IS my best best friend, he is there for advice and support and I love him so much for it. I tel him everything because I trust him and want to be open with him, I dont hide things out of fear of ruining my relationship and thats the way it should be.

Pokerfan Firstly has she done anything before to make you beleive she's a liar?
Most people I know (including myself) who come out of a serious relationship go out and do things they regret, I dont know if its because they need to be convinced that they are still desirable or what but it happens. I doesnt mean that guy meant anything to her and if she's saying she regrets it chances are she does... people do need time after a break up before they are ready to be with anyone else again, I say have a bit of patience, give her some time to get over this other guy and give yourself time to get to know her and decide if this is what you really want