phone calls

[dodgerfan]

I was wondering if their was anyone out their who can decipher what this girl is trying to do. Here's the deal, this girl had the hots for me when I was get treated at her doctor's office. A year later we run into each other at the bar and i get her number. We also agree to meet the next day when we are both not as drunk. The thing is we hit it off the next night and ended up getting freaky in her bed later that night. The next day we talk on the phone and then a couple days later we meet and agree to slow down. Then her family comes to town and I tell her I'll talk to her on sunday. (a few days later). Well i call her on sunday and she then wouldn't return my call. Is she running me off or playing hard to get. Anyone have a call on this?? Is this part of the game. I am used to having girls answer my calls. Thanks!!

[Skyby]

Hmmm..... wish i could help but it sounds a bit tricky... did she seem genuine bout the whole you her thing ( I dont know if thats the best way to put it) cos I could suggest that maybe it was a one night only thing for her but then again it may be that she is just playing the game or is busy.....

[mjv154]

Ok....first off relax. There can be a big difference between what is actually going on, and what you are worrying about. Chances are she's busy, her parents are in town, and stuff.

She's probably thinking, it's too soon to call, I don't want to sound too desperate. There are a lot of nervious things that go through a person's head when you just start seeing someone. I mean you have your mind all caught up in the fact that she hasn't called you back yet.

So....relax, she'll call. If she dosent' well, either move on, or call her.

Good luck man.

[dodgerfan]

I know i am over analyzing this but i date a lot and rarely find a girl i want to call back. Just as soon as I do she won't call me back.lol Does sound like she is just busy. I'll give her a few days and try again. Then i will hang it up. Thanks for the help.