question about booty calls

[eowyn]

i started dating a guy but then it became basically just sex. now we only see each other late at night to just have sex...i have accepted that he only wants a booty call from me. but my question is how long do these kind of things usually last? or a question for guys would be : how long would you keep a sex only relationship going? when would you end it ...any stories or experiences?

[lilly2279]

I had booty call men of different lengths... no pun intended. Some just a few times. A couple for several years. Just depended upon if we were both getting something out of it or not and if it was working.

The thing about bootie calls you have to remember is that you have to both decide what you want out of this. Is it just fun/sex? Are you going to be sure to be careful and ALWAYS use protection? Will you date other people? have bootie calls with others? What happens if one of you gets attached. Several of my friends tried the booty call thing but it didn't work out. They got attached, got possesive and started being freaky and wanting more. Booty calls were perfect for me because I was just divorced, didn't want to get wrapped up in a relationship before I was ready. If you are looking to date someone and are just taking this because it's all you can get from him right now, I would think twice about it. You may end up getting hurt in the end. Make sure you both know what you're getting into and that you are safe always.

[iamawesum69420]

I've had booty calls last for different lengths. A lot of them were just a few times. Also a lot of them were with friends. Just helping another friend out in a sense. Some of them were frequent but weren't long term. And some were over a long period of time but it didn't happen that many times. And then there were quite a bit of one night stands.

Like lilly said you have to both know what each of you want out of it. You should be upfront with each other first thing. For awhile booty calls were great for me. I wasn't looking for committment, just sex. They were great while they lasted. It was when I thought a guy wanted a relationship but it ended up he didn't but I didn't find that out until after we were sexually active and I was already attached. I was under the impression he wanted more but he decided to tell me after we had sex that he didn't want to date me. So just be careful and make sure your inentions and his intentions are made clear.

[SabrinaLHS8]

alright well i have had a couple of theise, and most of them used to be exs, well ive had them last for about 3-6months at a time , ive had one that had lasted about 3 years and is still going after we broke up (we went out for 3 years also) so , it all just depends on the guy there is no normal range that they last, i guess just hope for the best and try dating him, you should at least be treated to dinner if hes getting it from you all the time