My method of finding lovers...

[yasunde]

I'm not the kind of guy to have a girlfriend. Blessing or curse?

I'm 16, and most of the girls I've been with have been friends of mine. Sometimes random folk I just happen to collapse on top of, but mostly just friends. I'm admittedly a decent looking guy, so I don't disgust them, and I'm goofy enough to keep it from getting awkward. Usually.
I tend, also, to be a rebound/fallback for a few people I know.

I was wondering if anyone else manages this, or if they have anything to say about it. I don't know what effect this could potentially have on my friendships and future in terms of dating.

Am I crippling myself for the future that will inevitably involve the 'girlfriend' and the 'date'? Should I be getting practice?

I'm kindof worried.

Thank you in advance for any responses.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

your 16.... live life man... if you find a girl you like? go for it. if not? then don't.

[yasunde]

*salute*

I mean... later in life will not dating at this age come back and kick me in the ass? Perhaps in terms of how to treat a lady, or how to deal with them in terms of affection and whatnot?

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

well, dating has nothing to do with that.. i don tthink because... if you treat a woman with respect it should be always not select times.. or u know what i mean right?
if thats what you want... is to look more to dating.. then??? maybe its time to stop just being with girls.. just for the sake of it...?

[finewine]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (yasunde @ June 06 2005,02:38)]*salute*

I mean... later in life will not dating at this age come back and kick me in the ass? Perhaps in terms of how to treat a lady, or how to deal with them in terms of affection and whatnot?

You do not have to date to learn how to treat a lady.

The mind is where you learn and we live in an age of information overload. *Spend your time "preparing" by reading and visualizing it, learning it so it will be at your command.

When the right person comes along then you will have the knowledge you need to help her in her pleasure.. and the learning then will be about those things you've "prepared" for that you do together that give you BOTH the most enjoyment....
Those things are discovered together and the discovering together is part of the joy of any relationship.

So preparation and learning of "technique", good manners, how to cherish a person with words and actions can be rehearsed beforehand in your mind and then acted on when that woman comes along that has that je ne sais quoi that flips your insides inside out and stokes the fire in your heart and lower regions as no other woman can.

I will say that being with a prepared mind is much more fun than being with a mind that has no clue and is just winging it.
It shows thoughtfulness, respect, and care for the woman that you would make the effort to try to please her with intellegent lust, affection, and amour * *