More Highschool Drama

[deroxor]

So ill start off by saying that i know ive been a selfish dick. So if you decide to start flaming me, know that ive gotten friends to already do this.

So where do I begin, I lost my virginity to this chick. She was more experienced than me, her having been with 3 guys. I almost cheated on her at the begining of the relationship, I planned a 3some wit 2 georgous chicks, but ended up drinking myself silly and passin gout before anything could happen. After that i really had no desire to cheat up untill current times.

Flash foreward a few of months, I somehow find out she lied to me and shes been wit 5 guys. Now i know this really shouldnt bother me, because it was in the past, theres nothin i can do. But she lied about it, which made me feel worse. I felt like shit for a couple of days, but i looked past it.

move up a few more months up untill last week, I now find out this number has increased to 7 guys. Ok now im pissed off/upset, whatever you call it. I know i shouldnt be but she just had to LIE!!!!!!!!! anyways I was hurt. Feeling like shit, I decided I was going to break up with her sumtime soon.
Last Saturday, I had a bunch of friends over, My g/f was going to coem over but she decided she was going to go out and do coke with her friends. No biggie, i diddnt really want her over anyways. There was this one chick that came over her name was Chelsi, and she was AAALLLLL over me that night. Anyways I ended up makin out with her, and it felt good, and she was lookin pretty hott.

On monday i wrote an Email to my friend K about saturday. As i was writing the email, i kept wondering "What if my g/f were to read this email???" but i diddnt really care, actualy deep down I wanted her to read that email. Well, she does. She goes into my account, and reads the email. I diddnt even read the email kyla sent back to me yet. Anyways, when i got back home that day i get a phone call from K telling me that my g/f knew. Well i pick this as the perfect time to breakup with her.

She told me she lied and she hasnt ben wit 7 guys, and shes only been with me. I dont believe her, i dont believe anything anymore. So i told her since we cant trust eachother, we shouldnt be together. So I cheated on my g/f and dumped her. Made myself look like the biggest dick. Well now I feel really bad for what I have done, I still care for her, but i dont want this relationship bullshit rite now. She says she wants me back, that shed do anything to get me back. I dont know what to do, and to add more to the confusion, im supposed to have sex with that chelsi chick next week.

So im confused, I need help deciding what i should do. Should i go back to my g/f? or should i just let it all go and get with that Chelsi chick??

peace

[lilly2279]

Get with chelsi. Forget the liar.

Whether she's been with no one or 100 guys, should not matter to you. That is and will always be the past. BUT the fact that she has lied several times should matter.

In the future, don't make their past an issue. But do practice safe sex. You know that, I'm sure. But you can never really fully trust that someone is honest with you. And your health is too high of a price to pay.

[SMPL17]

True on what you said lilly. Dude she lied to you how many times? Think about it, if she lied to you on that she could of lied to you on other things. Then again maybe that was the only thing she lied about. Trust is the main thing in any relationship. She out right broke it more than once. True you might still feel, but being so young dude life is too short to worry about the past. True everyone moves on when they are ready to, but think. Things are great w/this girl now right? Why let past things come back and hamper a future that could be so bright.

[demonbuttercup]

Is chelsi the virgin from the other thread? or another random chick?

[deroxor]

yes

[WallyLlama]

Choose A.
or
Choose B.
or
Choose A and B.

The subject of the post says it all, really, "More high school drama." Normally I do not make light of these issues, but it seems to me that the poster himself knows the score and knows exactly what he's going to do.

There really is no answer... she lied; but he was going to cheat on her right after they got together (and would have if he hadn't passed out from drinking). He made out with the new gal last week before he broke up with the GF and is now scheduled to have sex with her. (Note that he does not describe her as girlfriend material.) He begins his post by announcing he's a selfish dick who doesn't need flaming (criticism). Based on his own report, I'd agree.

I suppose we can rightfully jump on the original GF for lying, but it sounds like she's part of an informal social circle that places value on having sex with as many people as possible. I wouldn't exactly say he's ready for a mature relationship, either, and I think he knows it.

[lilly2279]

Is chelsi still a virgin?

You know I'm 31 years old, but it freaks me out that part of a high school drama included a small mention of your g/f going out with friends to do coke. aaarggghhh. Our biggest drugs were booze and pot. I mean I knew about other drugs, but you only saw that in the movies and heard about it with rock stars or the rich. That's freaky.

I think I decided that having a child would be too terrifying.

Talk to girl one. Do YOU still want a relationship with her or not? How do you feel about the situation. If you want to make things work with her, be honest. Tell her she needs to be honest too. Do you trust her? Do you think you can trust her in the future?

[deroxor]

The last thing i want right now is a relationship. But i feel really bad for just leaving her like that. Im just realy confused, tryin to figure out the right thing to do. I know that this whole Numbers thing shouldnt be important, and that im still in highschool. But, I cant stop feelin like shit. but it sounds like i should just ride this out???

[LittleFury]

I say you choose plan D:
You go with neither of the girls...you quit getting wasted...you focus on your studies, stay single for a while and then a good girl comes along, the one the also focuses on her studied and not doing coke and liying, then maybe you ask her out. You're in highschool...you entire life is ahead of you, don't screw it up and don't get sucked into so much drama

[WallyLlama]

And now I know why I love LittleFury.

Get your shit together and you might end up with a woman like her.

That would be a good thing.

A very good thing.