.. need help plz

[Shadow Man]

ok ima 14 years old and this girl is in the same year as me. ok so we are sitting there and my friends were gone doin .. whatever they were doen and it was just me and her. so i said whats up? and she said nothen much .....that is about as much as i got. lol i need somethin to help me talk to girls i like so they will get the idea (that i acualy do like them)

any advice will be gratefull,
thx
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[finewine]

Try this:
Instead of
YOU:What's up'
HER: Nothing much

ask
YOU:What do you think of (latest popular show watched by teens or some such teen topic of interest)
HER: I think ......

why this method?
1. people are comfortable talking about themselves and their opinions.
2. you are learning about her opinions and interests to see if they are similar to yours.
3. this leads to more answers to questions that don't stall with the reply of nothing much or yes and no.

What do you have in common with her?
Classes, music, tv shows, teachers
Start with those things.

Take cues from her and your location. Is she reading something? Comment about what she is reading or ask questions about it. Is she waiting for someone? Talk about waiting.

Are you in the office?
"Hi, why are you here?"
"I'm here to talk about my classes next year with the counselor."
"Oh, really, what classes do you want to take..."

Are you in the cafeteria?
talk about the menu served, offer her a coke or talk about any cafeteria related topics that are current in the student body.

after the conversation.
It was nice talking to you, "her name". IF she smiles and shows that she enjoyed it too then the next time will be easier for you won't it?

[girl12]

hi! ok coming from a girls perspective....
when a guy is confident, it is sexy. you could ask her what music she is into...that always starts a good conversation. or u could ask her if she does any sports, what teams she is into etc.
if u talk to her like u hav confidence and talk to her casually, it will probably work.

just my thoughts.

-mariah