WORKPLACE RELATIONSHIPS

[BABYFAT]

littlefury u sure know how to keep it real!

love my baby he doesn't know anything about this.

my bf is not perfect, i mean we've been through a lot and i don't feel bad about what i do because of him. i feel not so good because of the fact i know that it's not right and still choose to do it. i guess i'm just being selfish. and about my co-worker it's more so about what i want then what he is.
i know he'll never be mine but i just want this to be the best love affair.

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]don't care about your other girls; just be good to me

if lovin' him is wrong; i dont want to be right

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

what i dont get.. is why people come on here asking for advice.. when they KNOW THEIR ANSWER ALREADY.

[Alspals69]

Hell, i am always asking questions when i already know the answers!!

In fact, it is often the act of asking the questions that provides greater clarity in my mind.

Sometimes when i see my questions written down, or hear myself speeking them, I realise they sound a littel hollower than they did when they were rattling around in my head. Certainly i spot my own bullshit for what it is, lol.

Regarding the actual thread, i am not so pure that i am going to cast too much judgement.

I know a few people in very difficult relationships. Difficult to be in, but probably near impossible to escape from. If it was one of those people telling me this story, i would probably be saying... just take anything that gets you through your day.

I have no idea if this is your situation of course. Just a thought.

[swthrt1964]

I'll bet it makes you happy to have some passion in your life since you're "married" to a controlling drunk. I'm wondering if it's that passion and attention he gave you that makes you so attracted to him.

I know it's easy for me to say and this would be a hard thing for you to do, but my advice is: dump both of them (the drunk will still have to pay child support). Enjoy being single for a while and get to know lots of guys. There really are a lot of them out there.

Soon enough you'll find one who will give you all the attention and passion you desire with no strings attached. You and your children will be happier for it.

Best of luck to you.

Sandy

[BABYFAT]

thank you: swthrt1964

that is so sweet, and u r so right!

mjv154, i agree with what u said about my son, if i put all my time and energy into him i won't have time to worry about anyone else.