Friend or stranger?

[thawizanator]

Well i don't know what to think anymore... do you try to start a relationship with a firned or basically a complete stranger you know,, well i have this female friend i like alot and would love to get to know her better,, and i know that i care for her alot, i enjoy be'n around her, talking with her and hangin out with her when ever we get a chance,, one of my friends told her that i really like her before i could,, and about a week ago i let her know i liked her and all and she dind't say anything to me but my friend travis said that she likes me as a friend and thats all she said,,, but i get a different vibe from her when i'm around her,, cause when i hang out with her friend misty and when we go to the movies (as friends nothing more) christina always asks,, what you two do together and you two did somethign didn't you (reffering to sex and or making out or whatever) and everytime me and christina meet up she always hugs me,, not liek a friend hug its like a long deep passonate hug,,, but i don't know..... i wish i knew what sings to look for and wish i knew how she really feels about me,, also wish there was somethign i can do so she can see how much i really care for her........

[oberon]

Okay, radical idea... ask her.

Look, this doesn't have to mess up your friendship. Just say something like, "I think we are really good friends, and I like you. Do you think we might be more than friends?"

Second... or third.. hand information isn't going to tell you what you want to know. Just take the bull by the horns and do it.

Good Luck.

[thawizanator]

I just about did today she called me up to see if i was gonna get my motorcycle out today cause she wanted to ride,, well we road for a while with my buddy and then we came back here to my place to warm up a tad i just about opened my mouth about it and then the quick thought about what if it gos down hill and the night/day turns to sh**?? but i don't konw..............

[mjv154]

So maybe this time you didn't get it out. Perhaps next time you won't be able to either.

It is normal to go through this. Just continue to be a supportive friend and make the move when the time is right for you.