Ahh, i'd I mess it up?

[Souljah]

OK, if possible, would like some views on whether you'd say I messed up and/or what I should do to fix it.....

Heres what happened - me and this girl who are sort of seeing eachother, not quite official, but I'll get to that were sitting on a bench in college yesterday, she had her legs wrapped around me sitting on my lap.
We were just sitting there talking, looking into eachothers eyes etc...I mentioned how I really wanted to kiss her and got the invitation to do so...Personally I didnt really want to there and then because I was afraid of being branded a bad kisser (not much tongue kissing experiance - which I knew that was the sort of a kiss she would do) and also because of the people around seeing (who we both knew)

I just wanted to kiss her so I went in to kiss her collar (because of hair blocking the neck) at which point she turned and brought her lips down to mine....and we started kissing
Sounds pretty standard right? Well the thing is I was caught abit off-guard and wasn't really expecting her to do this, I was really nervous and wasnt really concentrating on kissing her and more on who might be watching at the time and also whether I was doing it well...

It felt great kissing her but felt like I was doing a lousy job...I just want to know if I should take the attitude of redeeming myself or just shrug it off, I'll be seeing her tomorrow n therll probably be more of it...I just dont wanna mess it up again...


Edit: Just realised the wrongly typed title, sorry

[mmparks]

Shrug it off! You'll do fine.

[Tessie]

Don't worry about it. I am sure you will do much better next time when your prepared.

[oberon]

I agree with my fellow posters... don't worry about it.

First of all, it was probably better than you are giving yourself credit for. We tend to be the harshest judges of ourselves.

Second, there is something endearing about the awkwardness of a first kiss. I think it's that rush of exploring something new.

Let us know how the second kiss goes.

[Souljah]

ok, went out again, kissing was laot better, well i felt alot more comfortable this time, can only hope it was the same for her...

thanks for your help on the previous q...

One thing, we finished kissing and then I sort of just rested my forehead on hers, dont ask, but it seemed like a good idea at the time. When I did this, again, sort of uncontrollably I whispered 'I want you' to her, and she seemed to flutter before saying it back...

I dont know why I said it, felt instinctual, perhaps it was the way I delivered it, but does saying this mean anything to you lot? Because it seemed to have an effect, just would like to know abit more about it...

[mmparks]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (oberon @ Mar. 24 2005,11:37)]Second, there is something endearing about the awkwardness of a first kiss. *I think it's that rush of exploring something new. *

Something VERY endearing


And I dont know for sure, but Id say it would mean different things to different people. For me when I hear that I know it's sexual and Im all for it. I dont know how she took it.. maybe sexual or that you are very interested in her. Funny question.

[Alspals69]

It sounds like one of those great moments.

Your doing fine.

[secretly_shy]

its fun to practise

[mjv154]

Dude you need to relax. Trust me even the most seasoned lover gets a little nervious and flustered at times.

If you like her, and she likes you, just go with it and you really can't go wrong. Overanailizing it after the fact just spoils the moment.