Will he call me?

[sarah2004]

Ok,i asked my boyfriend to call me cuz his birthday is this saturday and he invited me to his party and i guess he wants me to come and he is suppose to call me with the time.What are the chances that he will call and should i be worried if he is going to call or not?

[Icarus]

I am a bit confused here...you say he wants you to come (well, his invitation to you seems to indicate that as you say), yet you are worried that he may or may not call you. I think that perhaps you are leaving out some information that may or may not help readers, because you are expressing doubt, but not giving any reason as to why you would have doubts.

[iamawesum69420]

Well if he invited you then obviously he wants you there. I don't really see any reason for worry.

[sarah2004]

sorry Icarus there's not much more info. than that.its just my mom had told me that if he is interested in me he would call me and in the past the last guy i had a crush on,i invited him to go to the movies with my mom and i and i took the time and effort to ask the guy if he would come with us and he told me he would think about it.So the day came and i waited for his call yet he never called back,a truely respectful person would have called back to say no thanks or what not and he didn't. So now when i am especting a guy to call me for a certain purpose i worry. and My boyfriend never said he would call,maybe he was especting that my parents would say no or that i would just show up and my mom told me to just wait for his call and if he doesn't call then that is a sign meaning he's not as interested as he told me he was in me. I really care about him and really wanna be there with him for his birthday and i am just so worried he won't call and let me down.

[sarah2004]

Hey Don_One,i am not able to call him for anything as of yet mainly because he has no phone in his house and has to go to a local store to call friends, family, or me.All is well though because he called me this morning and again later and now i am worry free and able to come to his house to spend time with him. Thank you for your advice though. All help offer from anyone are accepted.

[secretly_shy]

if he is ur bf and has said he will call then that is exactly what he will do

[mmparks]

Hmm lemme throw something out there... how about YOU call HIM or next time you see him if he doesnt have a phone.. how do you 2 communicate..and say" Hey.. am I invited or what?" * Or something more nice.. whatever. I mean why wait beside the phone wondering? I sure wouldnt.

[sarah2004]

your both right secretly_shy and mmparks.He's so sweet to me,he told me yesterday that he would call me everyday on his 2 work breaks and i believe him.Ya i'm going to his party and he's comming over to my house tonight and i will also see him sunday at my church......this is so cool.I've never had a guy care about me this much and wanna do all these things for me just so they could be with me.In the past i have had crappy relationships that didn't last that long and once when i had a relationship last a year he left me for another girl and it upset me so much mostly cuz he had my best friend write a letter to me for him and couldn't face up to tell me himself cuz i guess he was so shy.

[secretly_shy]

Its great u have such a lovely guy

but dont forget to keep in touch with your mates as well then u will have loads of cool people in your life

[mmparks]

Sorry to hear youve had bad luck Sarah! I hate to hear that kind of thing becauase its so unnecessary for people to be so horrible to one another!

Good luck with this one! Let us know how it goes!