real relationship after sex?

[eowyn]

I have been kind of seeing a guy for almost a month now- i liked him a lot before and was incredibly attracted to him. but now all we do is have sex or sexual stuff. i tried asking him what we are (dating, friends, going out) and he just says we are really good friends but he doesnt like the term F*** buddy...but i do want something more than just that ...is there any chance? anyone have a situation like that before? i dont want to get too attatched to him...or be really used...
thanks.

[oberon]

Tell him what you want out of the relationship. If you don't talk to him about it, then nothing's going to be settled. How he responds will tell you whether you can expect a relationship or just "f***buddy statis. Then you can decide whether to continue or let it go.

[iamawesum69420]

I agree with Oberon. You need to talk to him and explain what you want out of this and ask him what he wants. I've been in that situation before and I didn't really talk to him about the status of our relationship. I ended up getting attached to him and then he wasn't looking for a relationship as much as just a f*** buddy. So the sooner you talk to him, the better. That way you can either further your relationship or move on.

[JustTrying2BeAGOODBoyfriend]

I agree with both Oberon, and ,of course, Awesome, talk to him, i know this from experience, being the guy. A girl i was "with" not b/f, g/f, but we were indulging in eachother with most every excess imaginable but all along she wanted our friend with benefits relationship, to be very loving and intimate, i didn't find out till after she moved away, and a couple of her friends accused me of using her, and treated me as if i was Scott Peterson or something... so communication numero uno

Good luck...