i am a dick

[camman]

i just recently got out of relationship with a girl who i still love to this day. *I was really fucked up for a whiel. *I didnt touch another girl for the longest time. *I was in a... idk phase.
I broke out of it , by jumping around with tons of girls.
3 of them were close. *Like best friends. *They are also all my co-workers. ahhh
Anyhows they all like me, and i just kinda like all them. *I know that i was a dick for messing around with all of them , but i want to make it up. *I dont know if i could go out with one of them , i want to , but i think i should just drop them all. I dont want to separate these friends. I want to do what i can to atone for my actions.
I hope this makes sense
I just want to do something to make it even. *I deserve to be in the doghouse, *If anyone has an idea of something i could do, not to better my situation but thier's.
Tanxs anyhows

[WallyLlama]

I'm not sure I understand the problem...

But I'll bet the "answer" lies somewhere within three simple steps.

1. Stop beating yourself up. You put yourself in the dog house, you can take yourself out.

2. If you are doing something that makes you feel bad about yourself, stop doing it.

3. If you've wronged these gals (or anyone), admit it to them, apologize and move forward.

Note that I said "simple." I didn't say "easy."

[yetagainsorrows]

There are a lot of women out there. So don't limit your self to where you have all ready been. You said your self that you didn't want to seperate them as friends, so you care about all of them. Do them and you a favor and be with someone else and perferably not another one of their friends and not someone you work with. It will be much nicer and work out better in the end. No one will get hurt. They are friends so they all know you slept with them, so it's all in the open don't worry about it now, move on but not back.

[nursefluffykins]

yah maybe im just jaded or fed up of trying, or lazy, or some combination of the above.... but time and experience have lead me to the conclusion that love shouldnt be so complicated and that if its a major headache or makes me feel uncomfortable, then its time to move on LOL.... i mean dont get me wrong, i came out of a 5 year relationship last summer, so i value the importance of trying to make things work, but if you're that doubtful, take the time to look at the situation, but if ultimately it doesnt seem it could work, then whats the point..... also hats off to suggesting to apologize...never a bad thing