Period?

[Oleander]

Me and my Boyfriend are every, how should I put this "Horny people" haha and we like to have Sex alot... Don't worry everyone from my last post.. I'm not pregnate.. It was just stress. I'm going to get birth control soon? Hopefully. and well there's this problem. We don't last long with out having sex. And then the horrid time of the month comes along? I think he's scared, or discusted.

Question for the Guys!.. Do they think it's really nasty to have sex with there girlfriend on her period?

Is there any way to make sex on her period more clean or how bad of a mess is it??

Replys are needed! Thank you

[demonbuttercup]

It all depends on the guy. Some guys don't mind it, others are grossed out. Personally I can wait the week. I don't find it arousing at all lol. I myself don't want to be grossed out.
You could always do it in the shower or make sure you have lots of towels under you. Oral can be done if you are wearing a tampon and are clean down there. One guy said he has sex w/ his g/f w/ a tampon in, but that's just weird. I wouldn't do that, sounds painful.
They also make these menstrual cups that are like a diaphram and hold back the fluids. It fit way up inside so that you are able to have sex. I got some but I couldn't ever get it in there and have it be comfortable.
Glad to hear you finally got your period but remember there is still possibilities of getting pregnant on your period. Small but still there.

[soulmates82]

it IS messy - have lots of towels nearby and we have one or two underneith us and/or will be under us should we switch to different positions and move around the bed.....
can always leave the lights off so wont see eachothers parts "painted red"..... im still not comfortable with having oral performed on me when im raggin, and am not comfortable with taking his penis in my mouth after he has been inside me 1st....
im now 45 and mates 54 and we are in no way advising others to do this and we DO NOT recommend you take up this practice ... am i not saying it is a SAFE thing to be doing ourselves, but for us the plus side is based on fact that the whole course of our 23 years weve used rythum method birthcontrol and the ol pull out and pray.... when i am having my period we continue on with him cuming inside me and we can continue on or just lay and bask with him still inside me.....
again - i am NOT advising you or anyone to do this thinking wont get pg.......

[thetease13]

Yup, depends on the guy.

My guy doesn't care and I don't really either, other than the fact that I know it will be messy.

We've never actually done it while on my period, but never protested it.
When you're in a "relationship" like mine, you just kinda take what you can get when you can get it and neither one of us is gonna let that get in the way.

I also don't object to anal sex, and he loves to give anal, so I know that if the time ever comes, and we do find it too messy, there's always an alternative.

[vagabondprince]

Funny/Disgusting story:

A guy i know was getting with his girlfriend. she decided not to tell him she was on her period. so he starts fingering her and when he pulls his fingers out they're all bloody. he's furious that she didn't tell him, so he writes his initials on her chest with the blood and leaves.

Not all guys will react to that extreme, but that's just a warning to tell your lover that it's that time of the month before you start going at it.

[monie]

Eww... Gross.. Why would you not tell him? Yuck

[Tessie]

Some girls are just really not that bright.

[finewine]

I had a friend who had her period on her wedding night. It wasn't the most romantic night they had but physically the period did not get in the way of enjoyment. It just was messy...

[monie]

Oh man that sucks! Poor girl...

[finewine]

well, they made up for it after her period.