Will she have Sex?

[trickster04]

Just found this board today. I love what I see! Hope someone can give me there opinion. This may sound stupid to some. This might take a min. Me and my girlfriend have been together 6 months now. She is wonderful I love her to death. She is a virgin. I am not. Although I have only been with one person. She says she wants to save sex for marriage. I am welling to TRY to do that! ha. I would only have sex if she wanted to. Heres whats going on the past few months things have been slowly getting more and more physical. Were to the point were we are having sex with our clothes on. And she will let me pull up her shirt and kiss her breast and she will pull down her pants and panties down in the back and grab her butt while were having sex with our clothes on. And then a few nights ago she let me finger her but only on top of her pants. Everytime I would try to slide my hand down in her pants. It was No! ha. I guess what question is this. This is such a tease! I want her so bad its driving me crazy! Im trying to figure out if shes thinking the samething? Because things have progressed over the past few months. I mean me even fingering her like that would have been a big NO NO a few months ago. So Im tryin to figure out if theres anything I can do to help things progress more? I guess I should be patient? I dont know. When I was fingering her on top of her pants I just wanted to unzip them and just start touching her. But I knew she would say no and just pull the zipper back up. I understand she wants to wait till marriage and all but DAMN shes pushing the limits and its driving me crazy. ha. Anyone have anything to say. Maybe Im just being stupid about this I dont know? I am 20 She is 19

[lilly2279]

Welll, without us being in her head, we don't know if she'll "go all the way". I'm sure when she said she wanted to wait till marriage, she meant it. But her feelings may have become stronger and she may feel more comfortable going further when the time seems right.

I think it's great you've stuck with her this long and haven't had sex. You love her so much and know she is worth the wait.

The only way you'll ever know if she'll go all the way is to ask her. Plain and simple. Gotta keep that communication open. Maybe you can make a compromise, no actual penetration so she'll remain a virgin but do all kinds of other stuff. She obviously has desires and wants to act upon them somehow, but the first time for a girl (and guys too) can be so emotional. We can never go back, you know?

I love that you are being so patient with her. But talk with her and make sure you're on the same page. Good luck!