A breakup and a "change"

[funeral_of_hearts69]

My boyfriend of 4 months just broke up w/ me a week ago and he said it was the reason of himself having a "change about me. He still loves me the same but he says its in a different way. Also, he said these feelings began 2 weeks before we broke up. I was all the way in Arizona 2 weeks before. I have the feeling he cheated on me and feels bad..i don't have a clue so would you please give me some advice?

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Usally when they say they change h ow they feel about you, is... they dont see you in that "romantic" way... nothing much more to it.. really.. someone can love another, and not be in a "romantic" way, i think thats what hes telling you, is he has the love for you that isnt "romantic" and maybe you being gone away... made him realise that.. and even if he did cheat, least he broke it off with you right?so you don't have to deal with that bag, but i dont think he did, but we dont know

[funeral_of_hearts69]

wow..hes such an asshole...he found another girl less than 3 days after breaking up with me...oh well I found someone too but we aren't gonna date he just a really good kisser

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

hun i dont think thats being an asshole, least he was HONEST with you.

[vagabondprince]

some people have a change of heart. he probably just realized that his feelings for you were more lust than love and while you were away realized he could have those feelings for another person. immature yes, asshole no. like lady said, he was honest with you. at least give him credit for not stringing you on and using you as a sex toy.

[demonbuttercup]

Well if you are already making out w/ someone else, you can't be THAT heartbroken.

[funeral_of_hearts69]

I didn't make out with this other guy i kissed him once and it didn't feel right. I kept thinking about my ex. I am more heartbroken than ever. I get over guys by bottling up my feelings and finding someone else.