What makes man/woman attractive?

[Muppet74]

What makes a woman or man irresistable?
Memorable ideas or thoughts from life....

[monie]

Mmmmm.... So much I like...

Woman:

Nice rounded out body, no stick thin women!
Smooth skin and soft hair
Bright, genuine smile
Sparkly eyes
Nice round butt (hehehe)
Warm, kind personality


Men:

Big and tall, a combination of soft and hard body (muscle and cushion )
Dark, short hair
Deep, smooth voice
Well kept facial hair
Body hair (not too thick! )
Nice eyes
Strong
Understanding, funny, kind personality

This is what generally attracts me to each sex. Great, now I'm thinking of all my current interests...

[vagabondprince]

for the girls that have been irresistable to me, it's been practically all in the personality. and i can't exactly say what it is about their personalities because each one was really different. it just has to be intriguing to me i think.

as for the biggest things that attract me to a person, legs and the rest of the lower half of the body attract me more than anything i don't like the stick thin girls, but the legs that i'm attracted to are smooth and somewhat firm. I generally find a mild hourglass figure more attractive (as opposed to the girls with no hips). but like i said, the personality is what draws me in most.

[LittleFury]

Bah...I guess monie wouldn't like me. jk
Well...I find different kinds of men attractive. Lookswise, I love long well taken care of hair and arms and chest that you can feel safe in, And someone who is taller then I am even then I'm wearing heels (I'm 5'1 )
Personality wise...I like someone who I can talk to easily, who can be romantic and a bad boy at the same time. Also, someone who will accepting of me and my interests.
But...I'm taken...so that doesn't matter. He has all of that, except long hair, and a real thick skull. But he makes up for that in being a great cook and a greta brewer, so I guess I'll keep him

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Hmmm

women--- curves.. love curves, and a woman who SHOWS her confidence.. i duno i just about drop my jaw when i see them it makes them amazingly attractive and beautiful.. and im not so much a fan of light hair.. like blonds and stuff.
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Men
MMMMM the list i like big guys... like 6'0 and up.. i like a guy with a bit of meat, but not like.. fat.. er anything... umm i like just big guys tall and bigger, i also like the tall scrawny ones.... its sad i wont really lookat a man whos shorter than me.
I LOVE facial hair when... it looks good :P and when its kept nice.. umm.. dark hair *Drools* i love any color of eyes really.. i like deeper, quiet voices.. sexayyyy..
i like alot of Shy guys, or that seem shy..

[vagabondprince]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (LadyOfLucidDepths @ Dec. 11 2004,01:21)]i like alot of Shy guys, or that seem shy..

kinda curious, do you still expect the guy to approach you, or do you tend to approach those shy guys you're attracted to. i'm shy, and my biggest problem is approaching a girl. once i actually meet her and know her a little i'm much better off.

[monie]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (LadyOfLucidDepths @ Dec. 11 2004,01:21)]Hmmm

women--- curves.. love curves, and a woman who SHOWS her confidence.. i duno i just about drop my jaw when i see them it makes them amazingly attractive and beautiful.. and im not so much a fan of light hair.. like blonds and stuff.
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Men
MMMMM the list i like big guys... like 6'0 and up.. i like a guy with a bit of meat, but not like.. fat.. er anything... umm i like just big guys tall and bigger, *i also like the tall scrawny ones.... its sad i wont really lookat a man whos shorter than me.
I LOVE facial hair when... it looks good :P and when its kept nice.. umm.. dark hair *Drools* i love any color of eyes really.. i like deeper, quiet voices.. sexayyyy..
i like alot of Shy guys, or that seem shy..

Ha, sounds like you and i have pretty similar tastes! Except that tall scrawny guys really dont do a thing for me...

[Muppet74]

You know, I've dated a bit and come across difffernt "types" of guys...although their personalties are usually similar.
Quiet ones/Shy ones....cuz then I dominate them..in convos, or in bed...
Although, not tooo sure if that is a good thing neccessarily...hehee...

I know personally, I would love to find my "ideal" of a big guy...6"+, kind of brawny...brains is good with muscle...and some meat/fat is ok...cuz..like I have some....so who am I to judge??? As long as he works FT and treats me with respect, dignity (likewise in all i say)...and has the ability to push himself and me physically, mentally, sexually, and mentallly...I'm pretty happy.

Now in R.L. (hahaha) it's usually super skinny guys that let me run all over them....which IS NOT a good thing...it's like...sure...whatever...I don't have a thought for myself... and with the super skinny/slender/fit ones, I feel like a giant oaf...I could sit on 'em and flatten 'em....even though I'm not that big...

[Poetic Skye]

Here's three things I learned from a celebrity model that make any woman attractive: great hair, great clothes, and great makeup. With those three, you can't go wrong. If a guy doesn't see you for the beauty that you are, even after that, then throw him away like you throw away an old pair of shoes.
Peace >-

[vagabondprince]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Poetic Skye @ Dec. 13 2004,20:54)]Here's three things I learned from a celebrity model that make any woman attractive: great hair, great clothes, and great makeup. With those three, you can't go wrong. If a guy doesn't see you for the beauty that you are, even after that, then throw him away like you throw away an old pair of shoes.
Peace >-

don't overdo the makeup. use as much as you need to to fix any blemishes while still making it look like you're wearing no makeup at all. when i can tell a girl is wearing makeup (except for eyeshadow and maybe lipstick) it just makes me think "she's trying too hard". and beauty is more than skin deep. as in don't be a b*tch. and if the guy isn't appreciative, maybe he deserves it, but if someone simply threw me away, they'd likely regret it.

PS: i didn't know girls ever threw away shoes....lol