watching

[steveo]

has anyone had the chance to watch thier wife have sex prior to dating. i have got to watch my wife just prior before she became my girlfriend then my wife. not just once but twice. she didn't even try to hide, right out in the open for me and my date to watch. it was at night with some of the lights out but still we ( my date) got to watch everything. i love it when she talks about her past, but it's not often. but she ussally says o thats nothin but won't tell me any more.

any ideas on how i can have her spill the beans?
she knows i love listening to her past history!!

[demonbuttercup]

Are you the same guy with the wild g/f(in the past) who now wants a wild wife?

Let me just say this. When I was in High School. I had a friend who was wild sexually. I mean she had lots of partners, etc. A lot of it had to do with drugs, but besides that. Several times, she would have sex with her b/f and I'd be in the room, or front seat of the car and they were in the back. This totally made me uncomfortable, but I never really said much.
Now, if the subject comes up, she gets embarrassed. She is now married with 2 kids. She totally apologizes to me and is like, I can't believe I was such a slut, etc... and you were there...oh Im a horrible friend.
She grew up, nothing wrong with that. If your wife is no longer comfortable with her past, you shouldn't dredge it up.

[Tessie]

I agree with buttercup. If she doesn't want to talk about it then let it go. Maybe she doesn't want you getting all turned on by what she used to do.

I do think your unusual compared to most men. I know my husband doesn't even like to think I had a past before him.

[eDJ]

This reminds me of the story of Scheherazade and the Sultan Ali Baba.....somehow. *Ala Baba would take a new wife each night and then the next day behead her. *When he chose Scheherazade for a wife, *she seduced him with stories each night with a "to be continued till tomorrow night" caveat, thus her stories led to her longevity with ol crazy Ali. *

Well, there may be a harmonization factor here, but it should be her choice, to entice you without her feeling hounded for information which makes her uncomfortable and even annoyed
with you. *Deamonbuttercup an Tessie are telling you as women how it would feel from their side and your wife would probably feel the same. *Besides there is a legal side of this should you ever part in a divorce court....so this may give you a better understanding now. *

What she could do........is write some stories for you with fictious characters and run them along the story line of things which she might or might not have done. *Afterall it is fiction where the names and events are changed to protect the writer. *Obviously you have a computer and there is some word processing software on it for her to write with and save to a 3 1/2 inch disk.(notepad, wordpad, or MSWord if you have it) *She can write and title some stories for you in small installments. *Perhaps even publish them here in the entertainment thread. *Of course this is if she has time for this sort of affair. *Consider providing her with an inexpensive small tape recorder like you would find at WalMart to record her memoirs then play it back to herself thru the earphones as she types the story line.

This can be her special treat for you if you pamper her whims. *Consider getting her some lingere to wear as she reads the stories to you. Those inexpensive wigs can add to making her look like an altogether different girl in this environment *too. * * *She may just become your own personal Scheherazade. *......and I bet you would both enjoy the sex which stems from the arousal. *She may tell these stories for you like she is telling them to her girlfriends in another room and your are eavesdropping on them.

Always remember....the most erotic part of the body is the mind. *Just learn to bring out it's best.

eDJ

[Tessie]

I remember that story.

Seriously eDJ I am not trolling you but you are one of the best posters here for erotic ideas. Very lucky woman you have.

[eDJ]

Bless you child, *

I enjoy the opportunity to share ideas here. *My lady says she has a renewed awareness of how lucky she is now....by your post. (but always feel free to IM me with more flattery .....I don't feel trolled at all) *She finds this cyber thing I do online truly amazing. For her, books and reading in an introverted setting is her natural manner.

We've discussed writing erotic/porn scripts and utilizing the help of others who are good at sight reading like herself and finding those with oral interp skills to set up audio stories in a web site. *This so that visitors can just click on the book cover illustration and listen to the story being enacted. Erotic books on tape? *Pant, pant, pant, anyone? *Even creating comicbook-like scripts for amature porn movie productions....where the booklet is illustrated with pannels on the left side serving as the story board and the script is on the right side page. *This would use basic scenery common to one or several houses and real basic stuff such that a couple or moresome could do it. That is if they wanted to make their own little video just for fun. * The ultimate roleplay huh? *Well maybe for the free spirits & swingin singles set.

I'm not sure if I've mentioned those here, but they are projects I'm considering.

I have this G3 Mac with a "wings AV card" that I have to get
set up so it will work right. *With it I can edit audio/stero
S-video or standard video. *It will, when I can get it set up right, be a great asset to this venture.

Thanks for your sweet words Tessie,

eDJ

[Tessie]

Your welcome eDJ Not sure I understood much of that since I am not that computer literate but it sounded good. I do like the idea of erotic books on tape. Just don't listen while driving I say. I like to write erotica and have just gotten into doing erotic roleplaying stories and really love it.

Let me know when you get those books ready for sale. You just might be a very rich man someday.

[eDJ]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]I like to write erotica and have just gotten into doing erotic roleplaying stories and really love it.

You must tell us more about this Tessie. How it works and all.

I recall your last PM and did follow your lead. Soon I may have some more time to commit to it. It seems a few have enjoyed reading my last post in "getting a girl to masturbate
for you". WallyLama enjoyed it I think?

eDJ