Sorta long distance... Want to do stuff... BUT HOW

[monie]

Hi hi. As some of you might know, I just started a new relationship about a month ago. We live an hour away from each other, and neither one of us drives. So, its a little hard to see each other. However, we are very close- we talk everyday through just about every means of communication out there. Well, we really want to do sexual things with each other. The thing is, when we get together, it is usually only in public. You see, he still lives with his parents, and I live in my grandfather's living room... man that sounds bad... Anyways, my problem is that we have no alone time, in a private setting. So how can we do anything? HELP! Please. Thanks.

[WallyLlama]

I'm assuming you're not asking about phone/cyber sex. LOL

There was a thread a while back (DemonButtercup is usually good at finding these.) about a similar problem. As I recall, that one ended happily with a blanket and walk in the woods.

"While there's a will, there's a way."

A friend's apartment? Send Grandpa to the Bingo Parlor some evening?

Unfortunately, until one or both of you has control of your lives, options are limited and you'll have to get creative.

[oberon]

Yes, I think a vehicle of some sort is definitely in order here. I'd make that a goal. Unless you want to stick to, as Wally says, a cyber relationship. If one of you can drive, then you have a LOT more options.

[monie]

Thanks guys. Well, I am getting a car very soon. I am working on my liscence and all that as well. I guess I am just impatient... lol...
Well, lastnight, we went to see a movie. We were sitting there, not into the movie at all (if ya know what I mean.) So we decided to take a walk. Lo and behold, we find a hotel. So, yeah, probably what your thinking, we rented a room. He he.
Now, that was a one time thing, because we're not gonna be spending $50 each time we wanna do stuff lol. I'll have the apt to myself for a day coming up... Woo!
My sister has an apt, but people are always in and out, so thats not the best place...
Well, I am hoping to get the car and all lined up very soon, so hopefully we will be able to see each other more often.
Thanks again and any further input would be much appreciated.