It"s Over

[nc-lonly]

I have been dating a woman for about two months and we have had some good times toghther, but for me it is not working for me. It is not because there is another women, It is b/c she keeps bringing up the how long it took for us to meet. We met over the internet and chatted for about a month,before we exchanged phone #s. we than talked on the phone for about 2 weeks before deciding to meet, Alto she had wanted to meet a lot eariler. I have told her about the fact about her repeating this but it comes out in every conversation at lease everyday we talk.

Can Anyone give me some advice on how to break it off. I really don't want to hurt her ,but i know it will. I just want it to be as gentel as possible. She really is a good woman, but just not right for me.

[married1027]

Well, no matter how gentle you are it's going to hurt her.

Since you've only been seeing her for two months, the idea of finding you is still probably still shiney, new and amazing to her and that is why she keeps repeating herself.

However, I'm guessing that there may be more than just this one thing that's putting you off. She may be a great, fantastic woman, but like you said just not for you if you are getting annoyed.

All I can think of is the "you're great just not for me" reason say it "just doesn't feel right." Because after all it doesn't, but be sure you're not jumping the gun if it is just this one thing. Talk to her again about this if you want and let her know how much it really annoys you . She may not have gotten the message...

[Dogman]

The reason that she keeps bringing that one thing up may be because she is insecure and she thought at first you weren't interested. Not meeting when she wanted to meet probably hurt her and that is why she keeps bringing it up. If you reassure her that she has nothing to worry about with you being interested maybe she would stop bringing it up??