is it normal to have Sex?

[mark22]

hi , i was woundering my girlfriend and i dont have sex alot is that normal? i like sex i would like it alot but she do's not want to have it when i want it , we hardly do it we ben together for over 2 months and we only did it 2 times already
and i cant figure it out, is it normal for her not to want sex off me ? could she be cheting on me or not? can any one
giv me some tips or help me out it would be helpful thanks.

[thetease13]

Some people just don't want sex as often as others.
Not all women have sex drives like men and some just don't care to get it as often as they really should.

And hey, twice in 2 months is a lot to some.
I know people that have been together for quite a while (meaning years). Some are married with kids, some are not. Some get it every night or atleast few times a week. Others may get it about twice a year if they're lucky. lol.

[oberon]

There really isn't any such thing as "normal". It's whatever those involved agree on and like.

Have you tried talking to her about this? Two months is kind of a short time to learn about someone. The only ways to find out about someone are talk and time. Since you are short on the time thing... try talking.

[Ringo]

Are you talking about a lack of sex in general, or a lack of any form of sexual contact?

Cheers,

Ringo

[demonbuttercup]

In most cases, not all the time mind you, the guys sex drive exceeds the girls. were you her first? meaning has she only has sex 2 times? or did she have partners before you?
maybe her first 2 times weren't that great and she's not ready to try again. maybe she thinks it will always be like that, painful or awkward. if so, ensure her it gets better with practice.

i wouldn't think she'd be cheating, you've only been together 2 months.

like I said to someone else, or maybe you I don't remember lol.
some people might say that already having sex at 2 months is too soon, so having done it twice isn't really that lacking. I mean are you feeling any chemistry from her? does she enjoy at least kissing or playful fondling lol?
If the attraction isn't there, then move on. if it is, then have patience.