cheating

[Georgiaguy]

hmm idk what to say im in a weird relationship, if any of yall read over at the new to sex board you will see my posts about me and my girlfriend. well i kinda have something on the side to. there is this girl who lives a few countys over who is my girlfriend's best friend we have been talking on the phone for awhile and we finally met in july... we met up at this store and when i was walking in front of her she grabed my butt (we joked around on the phone about doing stuff) and next thing i know we are on the seacond floor of the store making out and stuff and she gives me a little hand job. and next we go out to her parents car and she gives me oral... well she is coming up in two weeks and we plan to go all the way, while my girlfriend dosnt know it. i kinda feel bad for runing around on her but then i get a feeling from her she is cheating on me. so i dont know what to do

[oberon]

You don't know what to do?

I'm sure you're familiar with the expression that begins, "Two wrongs..." ? *If you think your girlfriend is cheating then deal with it before (well, actually a little late for that...) moving on to the next conquest. *Either try to work it out (and you don't get to cheat either) or dump her and play the field.

[demonbuttercup]

if you want to cheat and you have the feeling she's cheating then just break up... don't be an ass.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

im with Demon, DONT BE AN ASS..
and you even... doin what you have.. is being an ass.
dump your gf, and go for the other chick. Since you dont really care about the woman you are with now..

harsh as that sounds.

peace

[JNII]

Georgiaguy, i hate to give u a similar response to everyone else but I just have to say somethigb because I cant bleive wat im seeing lol. My advice to you is to break up with your girlfriend because it is clearly going no where for oyu don't seem to care much about her and you seeem content with your new "partner".

Dont be an ass.

and let your girlfriend down easily

peace out

[Muppet74]

it's not the ASS....it's being a jerk!

Another woman's opinion here...but it sounds like you really don't have any feelings anymore for your "current" gf...and now want a new, plaything around...well...if she was her girl -friend first....I don't suspect that it would not carry on anymore once old gf finds out...2ndly...it's not fair....how would you like it if YOUR GF (you really don't know, and it sounds like you are assuming "To Assume=make an ass out of you and me"...well you are doing quite well on that homefront...
Be a man...break up with her cleanly and clearly...
then you can bounce the other one....

[demonbuttercup]

LOL
It was late last night and I didn't feel like typing out a lot so I just kept it simple. sorry if it was harsh but I think it fits nicely.
if you feel bad about cheating on your g/f...w/ her best friend no doubt (thats even worse)... then break up w/ her. are you fooling around w/ her friend just because you "suspect" she is cheating also? not really a good excuse.

oh and the "best friend" is an ASS too for cheating w/ her friends b/f...thats crossing a major line.

[secretly_shy]

stop seeing both of them, you will only ruin ur relationship and their friendship. and if it turns out ur gf isnt cheating on u, then she will have a slime of an ex-boyfriend and ex-best friend!

[Rawbob]

This is an easy one...just tell your girlfriend what you did, just like you told us and see what she says and does!

Just be prepared!

[demonbuttercup]

LOL Rawbob.