What Do I Do with me and my Girlfriends sex life?

[niceguy22]

hi , you see me and my girlfriend have ben friends for about a little more then 2 months and we have ben going out for a little over 2 months and we only had sex 2 times, but we had a trust problem cause it all started out one night when we went for a drive and we where siting some where and she wanted to prove that she had my phone number in her phone book and she always keeps it in her pers so when she opened the small book up theres all these guys phone numbers and i meen not 10 20 i meen over 50 guys phone numbers and i asked her about them and she said she never talks to them any more and they are from mostly high school, so then i said to myself ok what ever in the way that i will forget about it you know, so a week go's by and we where at her house and we we where waching a movie and the movie ended and then she wanted to show me some thingon her computer and she went into her messenger and theres a line of guys and she told me befor we started this relashonship that she has more lady friends and she has hardly no guy friends then i see all these guys i dont know what to think she erased them all infront of me and she gave me her password to her MSN account and i gave her myn and just about 5 days ago we got into a big fight and she changed her password and i dont know why, i dont know if she is hiding some thing or cheting on me or what but i am going on what she says to me . maybe some one can help me out with this. thats why i was woundering if thats the problem with her not haveing sex with me , she says to me that she is not a sexule person so i beleve it she says that sex is not every thing.

[demonbuttercup]

is it about your sexlife or the trust issue?
some might say 2 months was soon to already be having sex, but everyone is different.
apparently she didn't think much of the names in her phone book or computer b/c she showed them to you.
i have people on my buddy list i haven't talked to in years i just haven't taken the time to delete them off... no big deal.

other than the book and computer do you have reason to think she's cheating on you? maybe she changed her PW b/c she didn't want you messaging every guy on her list and you asking them "hey are you sleeping w/ my girlfriend?"

she's right sex isn't everything. its a big part of a relationship but if you don't have trust and you don't really enjoy spending time together doing things other than sex, then its not really a relationship. if you are just in it for sex, then you can't really get jealous that she's talking to other boys. I mean what kind of relationship are you looking for? does she want the same thing? 2 months is pretty soon for everything to be going bad.

[oberon]

I agree with everything demonbuttercup said. This relationship is so new (to use an old phrase) "the shiny hasn't worn off yet." You need to spend some time getting to know her better. We can't really answer the "Is she cheating or is she going to?" question. I CAN say from experience that IF she is you will catch on sooner or later... most people can't hide it for too long.

[Muppet74]

from a woman's stand-point...
i really don't think you have anything to worry about...but she probably now thinks that you don't trust her and will always "bring up the other men" in her life, whether it is past or present...
Chill out, relax and ...why give each other passwords to your accts....that's not cool...have you heard about privacy?
I would never give my pswd to anyone, even if we were married...maybe mine is a trust issue, but then he could know everything (which I would be telling him anyway...) in order to "prove" your relationship...you do not need to go that far...
"Have a little faith in me" - John Hiatt as the song goes...
A little goes a long way...