Does He Want Me?

[JustCurious]

Okay here's te deal...There's this guy. I really really really like hiim. And I think he likes me too, although neither of us show it. One big complication, if you would call it that, is his parents. We are together all of the time. I'e basically become part of the family. I go over their house, to his games, shopping. Im like a big sister to his sister and an adopted daughter to his parents. I know....This sounds like the perfect circumstances to start a relationship but apparently not. He doesnt want one. And he is what some wold all a "male whore" but not quite that bad. He's not interested in a relationship but i know that he at least wants me physically. We've kissed and messed around and stuff (I initiated, although it might have been foolish). That kinda makes me think that all hewants is what's beteen my legs but then he got mad when he found out that I had lost my virginity to someone else. And I have been hearing things around that people are saying that he said but im not sure if they're true. I mean I jut cant picture him saying some of that stuff about me. So HELP ME OUT HERE!!!! Does he ant me for me or whats between my legs...YOUR ADVICE PLEASSSSEEEE!!!!

[camman]

sorry to say but from what it sounds like he likes u for ur leggs, if at all. If he is talkin behind ur back he didnt put anything into ur toghterness.
To tell u the truth from what u said it doesnt sound like u stated ur emothional attachment to what u did with him. He might not even know u like him in any other way than physical attraction.
Tell him how u feel if u want somethin more from him .
But how it stands now it doesnt seem he likes u for u
anyhows goodluck!

[WallyLlama]

The best way to find out is NOT to give it to him.

You said "at least he wants me physically," but that is not a huge compliment, frankly.

Seriously, if he's only interested in what's between your legs he'll not be able to keep up a ruse for very long.

Conversely, you may want to consider if you're only interested in him because of your relationship with his family.

[funeral_of_hearts69]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]The best way to find out is NOT to give it to him

That is very true, make the guy wait and see if he is worth it

I know i'm making mine wait, and believe me, it works better for your relationship

[Stephanie083099]

I agree, I had 3 sex partners, and two of them I didnt make them wait and it didnt work between us, the third one I made him wait for about 5 or 6 months and we have been together for 5 years.

[Orbital]

The impression I get is that he just wants you for sex. Why would he be mad that you've lost your virginity to someone else when as you put it "he's a male whore". He's obviously slept with others so how on earth can he be mad at you?! Also if he says he doesn't want a relationship, well then there you go - it's just for the sex. If you're attracted to him and can handle the casual-sex and that's what you want too - well hey then go for it. But if you feelings which he quite clearly isn't returning, then to echo another post - don't give in. Because you'll only end up getting hurt.

[gideon]

Sorry to burst your bubble chica, but I don't think he wants a relationship at all...just a good time. I really can relate to your situation...except I gave in. It really does change everything, we're not really friends anymore, and I think its all going to come to an end pretty soon...you know once I can tell him no. Its nice to have someone want you...but its hard not to cry when they only want you for sex. don't give in, its not what you really want.

[JNII]

i disagree with all... i mean yea every guy wants ass... wats between teh legs is great lol.. but from how u state u guys seem pretty close, i mean he really could have feeligns. I mean even a "man whore" has a heart. Tell me more about how close u guys are etc... wat you two do non sexually, how u are together wen us spend time together.