Girlfriend cheating on me?

[newbie101]

like here lately my girlfriends friedns have been telling me that she has been doing really serious flirting wit other guys '' we go to diff schools '' and she has been flirting wit her ex and i really care about her i have asked her she said she wasn t but i iknoow ppl who have seen her doing it and i don t know who to believe or what to do i need some serious help on this subj.

[HerPleasure06]

Well, first ask yourself who you trust…her friends or her? Try to confront her about it say “so and so saw you doing this” if she still denies it and you know your friends weren’t lying Then you need 2 think about if its worth staying with her if she’s not being faithful. but that’s your decision in the end...good luck

[WallyLlama]

You also need to define "cheating" for your own sake as well as hers... maybe lighten up a little and not take things too seriously.

A little flirting probably doesn't qualify as "cheating."

Take everything into consideration, not just rumors. If she's treating you right and your relationship hasn't changed, consider whether or not you're just being a little insecure.

It happens to the best of us.

[El Capitan]

You really have to ask yourself how much you trust her. A lot of guys flirt with my girlfriend all the time (she's quite beatiful and sexy), they write her poetry and other such things, but I take no notice of it because I know for a fact she would never do anything to hurt me. The whole different schools thing can be difficult, so you should probably just talk to her, and voice all your concerns.