need some ideas

[mano84]

I am bi-curious and there is someone who I’ve fantasized about. He is a friend of mine that used to spend the night at my house when we were younger. He used to joke around, telling me to suck his dick. That turned into a fantasy for me. I want to tell him about it, and hopefully experience it with him. How do I approach him about this without him feeling uncomfortable? I would rather be more subtle than coming straight out and asking him. I thought maybe an innocent game of “truth or dare” or strip poker… if anyone has any ideas I would appreciate it.

[sarahgeewiz16]

hey .. that sounds soo cool .. hahaha being curious is always fun ! ideas well your " inocent " game of truth or dare sounding daring as well as ur strip poker , as for me i think i would probably corner him and just whisper it to him ! haha but try bringing it up at " remember when .. " and add something along the lines of .. " to bad the offers no longer on the table " teasingly though u know .. just give little hints

BY THE WAY EVERYONE IM NEW TO THE BOARD !!! YAYA !!

[demonbuttercup]

i dunno?
don't guys say those kinds of things?
like you tell someone...suck my dick! bite my ass! f*** you!
kiss my ass!
its just a saying, you don't really mean it.
my b/f and his friends are always saying stuff like "hey sexy" lol or shit like that just to aggravate and joke around.
or the line "he loves the cock" from jay and silent bob. they don't mean it literally.
i would definetly find out more about your friend if he REALLY means it.
good luck.

[Tessie]

Yeah I agree with buttercup here. You better be sure that your friend is bi-curious also or you could really freak him out or make him angry.

I had friends over last night and the my hubby and the man joked the whole night about doing different things while we were drinking and playing an adult board game. Not for one minute were they serious. They were just being guys having fun. The more us girls accused them of wanting each other the more they talked. It was hilarious but not anything I know for a fact the men took for real.

Hell if it one of them did make a real pass at the other there would be missing teeth and bloody noses. *

So, like I said you better be certain about your friend. If he isn't there are plenty of bi-curious men around.

[oberon]

Yeah, I've got to go with the majority here.

Mano84, make SURE that your friend wasn't just joking around. Maybe you could start the conversation the next time by saying "Would you REALLY let another guy...?" and see how things go. If he seems open, then you can let him know that you are sort of curious too. And, as the saying goes, take it from there...

Unfortunately, one man coming on to another CAN be a dangerous proposition. Best take things slowly so no one gets hurt.

OT: Okay, having said all that, it does kind of bug me that any time you see the "spin the bottle" game (say in one of those SKIN-A-MAX movies), it doesn't seem to be a big deal for the bottle to point to two girls. Everyone just accepts it as part of the game. How come you NEVER see the bottle point to two guys?!

[demonbuttercup]

yeah oberon
my friend and i were talking about that the other day how playboy has lots of actresses and models posing nude...but you don't get to see many famous men.
all us women (and oberon oh and Rawbob) get is the occasional butt shot.

i heard there was this one movie and colin farrell had a frontal nudity shot, and at the screening the audience went so wild that they cut it out of the movie .
see? whats up w/ that? lol

[oberon]

Well, demonbuttercup, you've come (no pun intended) to the right guy. *Yes, Colin Farrell had a full nudity scene that was cut...BUT he promises that the scene will be included in the video release. *YAY! *lol *At least Colin can be glad it was cut for a good reason. *There was also a movie with Kevin Costner (I think it was "The Love of the Game&quot where he had a full frontal scene. *It was cut because the audience kept snickering... Poor Kevin. *There are some movies with frontal guys... *"Wild Things"- Kevin Bacon, "The Color of Night"- Bruce Willis, and "Trainspotting"- Ewan McGregor. *

But as far as two guys interacting- forget about it. *Always the gratuitous girl-on-girl scene, but NEVER a guy-on guy scene.

[camman]

yea man be careful

I have a best friend and we joke around alot. I have givin him hickes just to know his girlfriend would see em. Sometimes ill lick his ear when hes doin somthin important like on the phone or with his gf just to f*** with him.

when ppl are over and one ofe us is gettin out of a shower we might try to take the towel away and like slap eachothers ass.

Even though we do this shit i dont ever think of him sexually and if he ever really hit on me i would hit him but i think i might seriously not look at him the same ever again.

Just think about the risjs first man
good luck.

[camman]

WAITT sry i messed up in typin. WOULDNT hit him not would .
dont want to ... idk have ppl think i am violent