Dating advice please

[nybronx187]

ive been going out with this one girl who is 18. (she is a tomboy kinda of girl who loves sports). i am 24. we first went out 2 weeks ago (watched a movie and ate dinner). then last week she came over to my house. we hung out. i kissed (one quick one) to see how she reacts (she said "thats cute&quot. we like give each other high fives and stuff. so there a lot of touching. she came over last night and hung out for like 3hrs (had a couple drinks) and talked. we just hugged when we met up and then when i took her back home. i dont know if i should make a move or not. i havent bought her anything like flowers or what not yet. were going to have lunch in a couple days. need some ideas on what to do.

[mjv154]

Play it nice and play it simple. *This girl is much younger than you are. *Just think about how you saw the world at age 18 and how much that has changed now that you are 24. *

*Just be careful, making a move isn't a bad idea, but be very ready to stop if you sense that she is uncomfortable or unready. *With you being older, she may feel intimidated and pressured into doing something that she has reservations about.

*As far as what to do....be honest, and be sincear. *Being so young, it will be much easier for her if you are very upfront about things. *Tell her that you like her, if you do, that you like spending time with her and want to continue to do so.

[demonbuttercup]

yeah i would definetly but cautiously test the waters to see if she wants things to be more intimate or if she's happy just being "one of the guys".
if she does want things to progress... it sounds like you've found the perfect girl
good luck

[vagabondprince]

from the say you told your story it doesn't exactly sound like this dating is absolutely what you think it is. it could be a slowly developing "romance" or whatever, but it could be a simple friendship in her eyes. definitely don't do anything drastic that could scare her off if she does think you two are just friends and she wants to keep it that way. Test the waters, maybe verbally express your feelings or something like that. if you go to the movies again, reach over to hold her hand...something like that. i hope this post helps a bit