Finally Being With Your Crush

[Poetic Skye]

Hey everyone. For years I've always wondered what it would be like if I actually got to be with the person I had a crush on, since it never happened. I'm sure many people here have been with their crushes, whether it was a long time crush or crush at first sight. My questions are: was being with your crush as good as you dreamed, and was the feeling as strong, if not stronger as when u got the chance to actually kiss them versus your fantasy of kissing them? By the way, this post also applies to those who have been in love with someone for years and stole the other person's heart.

[LittleFury]

OK...well, I guess I can sort of answer. This guy and I were close friends. And we would flirt with each toher from time to time. So finally, one day we talked and became intimate with each other. He had a girl from back in the boonies where he used to live who kept on saying that she was gonna move for him, and I sort of had a guy who was gonna come to see me and ebcome my bf. But my frined and I fell for each other, hard.A bit passed, few weeks, but even few weeks is still too long of the torture. Finally one night, neither of us could take it anymore, and we told each other how we felt. Fast forward to today. He's snoring on the bed behind me, we just celebrated our first anniversary on Tuesday, where is a promise ring on my finger, and we are very happy. OUr love for each other grows with each passing day, and our fantasy became a reality, even better in fact.

[mjv154]

I had met this girl "Brittany" at a party 3 years ago. *I remember thinking how beautiful she was and how incredibly hot. *I was with my long time girlfriend at the time, and it ended with those thoughts.

*She was a friend of my buddy's, and I would run into her every few months or so, still thinking she was as hot as ever. *

*My girlfriend dumped me. *That sucked. *So, next time I went up to visit my buddy I called "Brittany" up. *We hung out for the entire weekend, it was really cool. *

*Long story short. *She ends up kissing me. *WOW, this girl who I have always thought was so incredibly hot, actually kissed me. *

*It was very nice, and it brings a smile to my face everytime I think of it. Just goes to show you that you should go after the things you want.

[thetease13]

well, the first person I ever had a serious crush on was one of my best friends from high school.
we never got together even though the feeling was generally always there for each other. the problem was more or less when he was interested in me, i wasn't interested in him in that sense, and then he'd find a girlfriend and well then i'd be interested in him. that went on for 3 years. lol.
he is now getting married. it's not the best feeling in the world to know that the one you let get away is now getting married. and he's younger than you are.

anyways.
I'm "with" someone right now. He is a really great friend of mine and if I must put a title to him it would be friends with benefits. I've had a crush on him since pretty much the day I met him. I wasn't going to pursue it due to some major complications in it all, but everything just kinda grew and things fell into place and whatnot. He wound up being my first for everything. First time, first kiss, etc, and really, first relationship, even if it's complicated.
I don't regret losing it all to him in any way. It makes me happy thinking about it and I couldn't imagine ever losing it to anyone else.

[oberon]

I did actually get to "live the fantasy". *It was... okay. *

I met this guy in a group of people once and was told by a friend that he was amazing (it turns out that he was, uh, "well-endowed&quot, but I initially thought he was kind of goofy. *However, the more we talked the more I came to like him and so I was going to ask a mutual friend to set us up and then the bomb dropped... he was actually dating this "mutual friend". *Anyway, I had the hots for him for a few years and eventually there came a time when we were both free and interested. *

There was a lot of passion, but to be frankly honest, he wasn't a very good lover. *We were together for a while and things did get a little better, but I'm still to this day not sure if I wouldn't have rather have kept him a fantasy. *He was fairly closeted and I'm not, so that makes for a difficult relationship. *I guess sometimes when fantasy comes up against reality, you just have to realize that other people aren't always what you want or expect them to be.

[Poetic Skye]

Hey I love your true story Little Fury, it's cute. Well everyone just keep them coming.

[Tjdude]

Well i actually it happened to me like 3 weeks ago. I was with this beatifull girl that i like, so we went to the beach at night and spend hours talking. We were both on our backs just looking at the stars then i don't know how i just kissed her very soft on the lips. I was just waiting for more stars and a black eye when she kissed me back. Boy! It was like a dream. After a while we went to the car and talk some more and fool around some more. It was a great night, we didn't had sex, just a little more than first base and that's all, and you know what, that's what makes it so great. The bad thing is that after that night things are kinda akwards between us, but i realy thing that's one of the best dates i've ever had.

[experimenter]

When I was 14, I had this huge crush on a guy who was 19. The first thing I noticed about him was how sweet he was. Most of the other guys I knew were total jerks. I was convinced that a 19 year old would never be interested in a 14 year old, so I never said anything to him for a while. After about 4 months or so I got up the nerve to ask him for a ride home (I met him at church, we were both involved with the bell choir and had practice once a week). He said he'd give me a ride home, and from then on he always did.

We have now been married for five years, and have two children.

The first kiss, the first everything was better than I could have ever imagined. The reality was definately better than the dream cause in reality, you actually get to hold the person, instead of just dreaming about it.

[ductapefaerie]

Well, there are a few different stories...

The first: Kevin...we went out for about seven months...he ended up being an absolute jerk who broke up with me because I wouldn't kiss him...I was eleven...go figure...I talk to him a few years later...by the time he's 14 or 15, he's had sex multiple times...I was kind of disappointed in him...but whatever...he wasn't as nice as I had imagined...

Number 2: Ben...he's okay...I still don't know why I liked him so much...we "went out" (long story short: no one ever really said yes...) for like a day...and he kissed really badly...what's sad is he was my first kiss and I knew he sucked...poor guy...

Numero Tres: Kyle...he's a great guy...friend for a long time...we're both attached now, but we have an agreement: if we're ever both single, we're getting together...we went out the first time for like two weeks...major puppy love...last January, we went out for like an hour (my bf asked me back out later that day...) let's just say that was definitely a fantasy turned reality...three hours of intense sexual tension around a pool table(even better...major fantasy at the time...now I know it hurts the tail bone...) then, major make out session...great great kisser...very pleasant!!

Final one!: Travis...love of my life...we're going to get married someday...either a year or so from now, or three years from now...depends...but to the story...we played paintball one day just after school ended for the summer, and I then accompanied my friends jess and becki with bfs john and justin back to the guys' house...I realized I really wanted travis to be there...we spent the whole summer talking online..then came bandcamp and we both flirted with each other a lot! the day after school started, he finally asked me out...( by way of anagram...wygowm...lol) I thought I was in heaven...the way every girl wants to feel in a relationship...it was rocky a few times, but it's all worked out now, and he does that really sweet romantic stuff every once in a while and is the most supportive, understanding person in the world...the fantasy of that awesome, perfect, romantic relationship come true...almost...it's not quite perfect, but it is awesome and romantic most of the time...and he's perfect for me, so it's all good

...so those are my stories...

[secretly_shy]

My longest crush would have to be the man i am with now

I met him when i had *just* turned 18 (by less than a week) and thought "wow, this guy is gorgeous and sweet" but didnt think he would be interested in me, as he was 23.

Over the next year i made efforts to get to know him better, we met up every now and then & chatted, we had a beach trip together (lots of splashing each other in the water) and one night after spending the day with him watching him waterski and meeting his friends, we decided he would stay over so we could continue talking thru the night.

We talked for hours, insert childish tickling here! And I ended up falling asleep in his arms. When I woke up he was looking into my eyes, and kissed me. He said "Ive been wanting to do this for ages", I could have melted everything was so wonderful! Its been over a year now and as each day passes i discover new things about him that make him more and more wonderful.

His parents and great... and like me. My parents are also great... and they ADORE him! I have definatly never had feelings so strong for anybody else ever.

We didnt have sex right away, i felt what we had was so special that i would take my time and not rush anything. It was well worth waiting a while... wow! We celebrated his 25ish bday in june, and I turn 20 tomorrow (the 19th) We're still crazy about each other, and have jokingly said that if we're still together when the next 29th of february comes in 2008, i will propose to him! (if he hasnt done to me by then!) Im in no hurry for marriage... this man has proven to me that waiting a while for things DOES pay off!