Not without her friend

[TheDick53]

Ok so i have been talking to this girl now, and we hooked up a few weeks ago. I'd really like to go out and see her, so I asked for dinner and a movie. She seemed a bit unsure. So i talked to one of her friends (happens to be a really good frined of mine) and she said "she's never gone on a real alone date, and shes nervous about too much attention on her." So now the only way she will go on date is if her friend and her boyfriend will go too. Her boyfriend is my best friend, but he is also very obnoxious when it comes to double dates (he tries to push me to make moves, and makes me look like an ass). And i really want to spend some time with her alone.
So the question is, how can i convince her to go on a date with JUST me?

[oberon]

You could try just telling her how you feel.

Tell her you just want to spend some time getting to know her without anyone harrassing you and making you feel uncomfortable.

If you still must go on this double-date, and this guy is your "best friend", then tell him beforehand to "BUTT OUT!". You appreciate that he would like to help you, but you would much rather do this on your own. If he's really your best friend, he should understand that.

[FlexXxKavana]

yo bro not a good sign i was dating this hott asian chick and she always drag big fat mexican friend around. i told my friends 2 go on a date wit her and they refuse. i'm guessin that she feels she not comfortable around u yet or she feels that ur just a friend also

[mjv154]

Two things....

*1. She just may need more time in a group setting to be comfortable around you. *Def. talk to your buddy, and also talk to her. *Tell her that you want to continue to see her, and agree to her terms of those meetings.

*2. Maybe it was just a hook up and your barking up the wrong tree. *As much as you may not want to hear it, this could be her polite way of telling you that she isn't interested in more.

*At any rate, play it cool and calm. *Rome wasn't built in a day my friend.

[demonbuttercup]

well id go along w/ her wishes and try the double date thing first. im like that too around new people. im not so good w/ the one on one.
and like oberon said, tell your "best friend" to back off beforehand. if not, then maybe find another couple to go with.