I need some suggestions

[blueshark]

the girl I'm currently with had to move away about a month ago.

She's taking a week off of work and a 26 hour bus ride to come and see me. She's complained a bit about the bus ride and the fact she'll be missing a couple big events.

She's leaving a life of excitement to spend some time with boring old me, and I feel I need to make it up to her a bit, but I'm not sure how.

I think the whole flowers thing is getting old, and a big hug and some sex goes without saying.

I need something better than that, but I keep drawing blanks. I also know that she expects something (though she'd never admit it) and to not deliver would be a poor choice.

please send some suggestions my way, or even some wise words.

Thanks for anything

[Mouta]

Take her out for dinner, make her feel like your really happy that shes there, prepare stuff.

[monie]

Yeah. Make her feel like you are very happy to see her. I think flowers would work- for your greeting. Maybe you can greet her at the bus station, wear something she likes, and hold a single rose for her. Then tske her to your place to put her bags away. If you are a good cook, try making her a special dinner- just the two of you. If not, or if you wont get any privacy at your place, go somewhere nice that carries her favorite foods. Plan fun stuff to do that she likes doing. Give her a massage that night. Just make her feel special.
Hope this helps.

[oberon]

Ask yourself what she likes. *Anything you can remember her saying. *It's really the small things that make something special. *It may be something she only mentioned once. *It shows that you have been paying attention and want to do something special just for her.

Good luck. *Hope you have a great time!

[Zool]

Candlelit dinner at yours, along with decent wine (champagne if you can ) nice music, and whatever else you feel appropiate.

If you're a good cook, go for something you know she likes and add your own twist to make it a bit special.

If you're not, go for something thats simple but still appealing and shows effort. A Chicken stir fry with various mixed veg, a sauce you both like and a variety of spices for flavour and originality (Try adding things such as ginger, cinammon and paprika to an ordinary sweet and sour sacue and you have something very nice, and is still very simple).

Find a desert she likes and have that ready for when you finish, then follow onto whatever you feel best, sex, a movie, a night out etc.

Good luck

[duckie]

She is coming back to see and be with you. Apparently the BIG EVENTS she is missing don't really matter all that much to her.
Take time to enjoy the time with her. Romantic "favorite home cooked" dinner. A walk in the park. Splurge, maybe even a horse drawn carriage ride if they have them available where your at.
This is definately about you as a couple and she is missing the time with you already.

Good Luck!